21/04/2026
I said it, if this man really love these children as he claimed then he should move on and coparents in peace.
I saw a video of saying his kids tell him their mom, his ex-wife, slaps them. Then I saw another video where Korra asked one of her daughters why she told her dad that. The child said she was scared. Does that mean "coaching" is going on here? "Coaching" the kids against either parent is parental alienation.
I always talk about parental alienation, and this is why.
I have seen the damage this can cause. I have seen kids turn to dr^gs and other substances because of parental alienation. I remember one child who became an angry child because his mom did not allow him to see his dad. They even moved away from the town to keep him away from his father. That broke me.
Children should be 100% left out of adult problems.
No parent should speak badly about the other parent to a child. No child should feel afraid, confused, or forced to pick a side. Kids deserve peace. They deserve to feel safe with both parents.
Parental alienation leaves children confused and hurt. It makes them look for comfort in the wrong places. When a child feels like they must choose sides or carry adult problems, it creates deep wounds. These wounds can follow them into adulthood. It can show up as anxiety, anger, trust issues, or unhealthy coping.
Children deserve to love both parents without fear or guilt. They should not be messengers or mediators. They should not be in the middle of a conflict.
Co-parenting is not about being perfect. It is about choosing peace over pride. Every negative word about the other parent can stay in a childβs heart for a long time.
If we truly care about children, we have to do better. We must create safe and loving spaces for them.
When children are pulled into conflict, it can damage their mental health. Some carry deep pain. Some turn to dr^gs just to cope. This is real.
If you are co-parenting, please choose peace. Choose your child over your anger.
Your child is watching. Your child is learning. Your child is hurting more than you think.
Do better for them.