23/09/2022
When you truly want to make a difference, the first step is to raise your standards.
In my case, I wrote down everything I would no longer accept in my life, everything I would no longer tolerate, and everything I aspire to be.
You must decide what you consider acceptable behavior for yourself and what you should expect from those you care about.
If you don't SET a baseline standard for what you'll accept in your life, you'll find it easy to slip into behaviors and attitudes,
As well as a quality of life that falls far short of what you deserve.
Whatever happens, you must SET and LIVE by these standards.
Even if everything goes wrong, even if the stock market crashes and prices skyrocket as a result of a virus outbreak.
Even if your lover abandons you and no one provides you with the necessary support,
You must remain committed to your decision to live your life to the fullest.
Most people, unfortunately, never do this because they are too busy making excuses.
They haven't achieved their goals or aren't living the lives they want because of how their parents raised/treated them, or because they're too old, or too young, or the most popular reason - the government.
All of these justifications are B.S. (Belief Systems)!
They are not only limiting, but also destructive.
You can do almost anything if you truly want to.
You can change that toxic relationship, your low-paying job, your finances, and your self-esteem. Simply accept responsibility, make a decision to change it, and most importantly, BE RESOLVED TO YOUR DECISION.