Queen Habeebah Ibraheem

20/10/2022

"Must I Be Married Before I Counsel?"

Never wait to accomplish some pleasure or gratification before you pursue your dream passion.

You shouldn't be much bothered to chase money first, rather chase your passion dream and that will earn you a self-respect and more desirable things.

You shouldn't be a graduate before you pursue your dreams, neither should you wait till you are married before you have your future dreams accomplished.

I was once asked under my post that how can I be a Counselor when am single. Smiles

The fact that am not married doesn't mean I can't counsel on Marriage and other aspects. If I have the talent and passion for it as a young single lady I have to do it.

It's not destined for everyone to be married before death.

Do I know when am going to die?

Do I know if I will die with out not being married?

So do I have to fail myself in pursuing my passion dream, working on my talents, just because am not yet married?

Definitely No!

A lot have benefited from QHI Counselling Agency, complement it and recommend it for others.

This makes me think of not giving up on my dream even though am single, but hope to explore beyond my expectations. Although I can take a break or rest but not to stop.

Below is the comment box is a complement I got from sis after Counseling her friend. And many more compliments that I won't be able to update.

To my dear future husband you must not be lucky to have me alone. Abeg try have all the good qualities needed in a man, so that I will be lucky to have you, too.👌😁😂.

Please Don't Let Anything Stop You From Pursuing Your Dreams.

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16/10/2022

We don't have to revenge those who hurt us by hurting them back.

They might be going through pains which might caused them to hurt us unintentionally.

Let's try to pardon them, love and pray for them to heal from their silent pains.

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02/10/2022

Nigeria🇳🇬 Independence Day!!

Nigeria @62 today, a lot need to be done by our leaders and citizens. If the leaders failed, then the citizens, especially we the youth shouldn't fail.

Advice to my humble self and all the citizens.

1. Firstly; The youth needs to be Independent through learning of useful, important skills and implementing it aptly.

2. Daily studying to discover and invent crucial elements needed in our society.

3. Pray and vote in the best leader with unlimited values in developing our dear country, also encourage others to do so.

4. Educate and teach about Nigeria basics history.

5. Leave as an epitome of good citizen for others to emulate.

6. Motivating and sensitisatising peers on good citizenship.

7. We are all human before race disconnected us,
religion separated us, politics divided us and wealth classified us. So let's preaches humanity!

8. Children are the future of our nation, let's understand the good impact of building our future with indispensable priorities.

9. Know who you are, where you are and what you are diligently looking forward to be.

10. Accept your mistakes, work on it and let others learn from it.

11. Rise up, work hard and shine like a star no matter how many times you have failed. Never give up!

May God have mercy and bless our country Nigeria 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬❣️❣️

By: ✨Queen Habeebah Ibraheem ✨
Ojougèfu

25/09/2022

Human Derailment.

A train would eventually get to its destination as long as it stayed on the tracks. However, once it derailed, that would be the end of its journey.

The point is that we human being are also like the trains running on our tracks. Once we go off our tracks, we may never come back.

The question is, why do people derail?

Why does it happen so often that very intelligent people that everyone would agreed were destined for greatness, just fall by the wayside? Do you know why?

Gratification! ("Pleasures and Desires")

If one does not learn to delay gratification, one may be derailed by gratification.

People have desires for different gratifications. It's quite natural, gratifications like. Cars, mansions, expensive dress, girlfriend or boyfriend, S*x, marriage and so on.

These are very good and naturally desirable. However, they all come with huge price tags. I don't mean the money alone.

Sometimes, the price we may be required to pay for some of these go beyond money. It may be our emotional balance, our self-respect, our integrity, our career, our freedom and sometimes, our very life itself.

The question therefore is not whether you are willing to pay the prices; But the question is whether you fully understand the price to be paid for the gratification and whether you can actually afford it. This may sounds daunting, but you know what I have realized?

What I have realized is that for most of these things, the price you may be required to pay is just the time you have to wait. The time you have to wait denying yourself these things until such a time you can truly and honestly afford them, financially and emotionally.

However, if you try to gratify yourself with any of these before you are ready and able to afford them, they may end up derailing you.

So, take your time and patiently endure till the right and appointed time you can truly afford your gratifications.

I pray that your life would never be a warning to others, but a good example.

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By: Queen Habeebah Ibraheem
Ojougèfu

13/09/2022

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Our aims is to sensitise the world in different ways and gives you the healthy smiles you will ever need.

Below are the unique services we offer, providing the best solution with God's grace .

*Marrital Challenges and Advise.

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11/09/2022

The End!

Husband's Desire To Have A Taste Of A Young Lady.

I was trying to be strong and get over the messy shocking information I got from my husband in two days time, when I went for a wedding ceremony in a neighborhood compound.

Surprisingly I saw Mustapha from a far and I developed a lustful feelings immediately I sighted him. The way I felt for him was beyond my imagination.

Mustapha was my ex suitor, he loves and cherish me a lot but we weren't compatible. He so much crave for me.

I don't want to hurt his emotions, so I didn't call on his attention before I left, but I asked my first child to help me get his contact.

Sooner after my baby returned with his contact and told me Mustapha will be expecting my call to know who requested for his phone number.

I called him, and we exchange pleasantries.

Nimah. He said on the phone joyfully, you have forgotten me? You couldn't even let me see you after we departed till now, why Nimah?

Am sorry Mustapha, I don't want to hurt your feelings that's why I did everything I did then. Am married with three kids now. I grumpled in lament.

I know dear, but I still care. He said meticulously.

How's your husband and kids. He asked with care after his first statement.

Alhamdullilah. But am hurt Mustapha, I complained without a thought or an option.

Share with me please. What's wrong Nima?

I explained partly about my husband decision of taking another wife to enjoy a different taste of woman.

Subhana Allah. That's not ideal at all, but I think you should be fine please. I will give you an hint on WhatsApp chats, a wise suggestion to attempt, because I still care for you. He assured me calmly.

I thanked him wholeheartedly and he appreciated me for calling, before I ended the call with Taslim.

I received Mustapha's message and decided to work with it immediately.

My husband arrived home lately as usual, I welcomed him and served his food on the dining table while I went to the room immediately.

He joined me in bed few minutes later and saw me smiling beautifully.

He was tempted that he made love with me after a week and days of abstainance.

We took a ritual bath together then I laid in bed going through my phone messages and smiling uncontrollably, while he stared at me suspiciously. Though he managed to slept off later .

I woke up early in the morning and prepare the meal, bathed and dressed up the kids for school.

Immediately we finished the breakfast, we bade a good bye to the kids as they were to be driven to school by their school bus.

Honey, I called my hubby. Trying to get his attention.

Nima what's the problem? he asked reluctantly.

Please we need to talk now. I replied without hesitation.

It's fine dear, share with me Nima. He said happily with curiosity.

You can follow your heart desires, I understand your feelings. I said apparently.

Thank you Nima baby, now you speaks maturedly and thanks for yesterday night, I can't wait to have her here with you too.

But I developed such feelings too. I cut in.

What do you mean? He asked out of confusion.

I mean I developed a desires to taste a different man a side from you, expecially a young guy. I tactlessly responded.

How dare you! And what are you insinuating Nima?? He asked frowning his face.

I saw my ex - suitor Mustapha at wedding ceremony yesterday, I was lost and couldn't control my feelings for him, I felt s*xual urge because of him but I managed to satisfy myself through you while thinking of Mustapha. I gasped and continue.

I think I should divorce you for few years, Inorder to have a taste of different man before reuniting with you if they will be any need of reunion, while you bring in your new bride. I apparently concluded.

Impossible! I can never, and will never loose you or share you with Mustapha or any man. I will never condone that. He said sternly.

He moved up and down, frowning his face and shaking his head reluctantly while I was seated on the cushion watching him carefully.

He turned towards me and said, habeebatee.....

Am sorry for hurting your feelings, now I realize how you feel when I intend to take a young lady as a second wife to have a taste of another woman. Indeed it's a selfish heart desire and not the practice of our beloved Prophet Muhammad S.A.W.
Because the prophet never practiced polygamy with the intention of tasting different women as Aeesha R.A was his only young and virgin wife and you will In Shaa Alllah remain my young virgin wife.

His face was filled with emotions and he really felt remorseful as he placed his right hand on his chest to seek for my forgiveness wholeheartedly.

Honey it's okay, I have forgiven you. I said with full assurance.

I promise never to make a cruel decision like this anymore, it's over between me and the young lady, you should join me to inform her soon, and am pleading you to let go of Mustapha. What you have for him is just a lustful desires and that's same thing I had for this young lady I intended to marry as my second wife. He breathed in, and continued remorsefully.

Please I want us to always share, and control our strong lustful desires and help each other unravel it In Shaa Alllah. He plainly suggested.

Na'am my King. Alhamdullilah you have realized your mistake. I pointed out.

Jazakallahukhair my Queen, you helped me through your feelings which sensitised me. He moved closer, held my hands and helped me stood up from the cushion as he completed his statement.

We hug each other tightly and ecstasy was the feeling we had!

The End.

Lesson: A didactic write up pictured and depict to show the fact about Polygamy In Al-Islam.

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By: Queen Habeebah Ibraheem
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10/09/2022

Husband's Desire To Have A Taste Of A Young Lady.

Its three days now, I noticed strange acts from my hubby, he spends more time on his phone, he hardly come home in time and didn't have much fun with me anymore. I asked him the reason behind his sudden change, but he fails to give any response.

I tried to check his phone, but hurtfully he locked his phone with a security code. I was puzzled because he hasn't done such before.

Nima! he called me.

I walked majestically to the sitting room and slight sit on his lap with a boring look on my face.

I want to tell you something important, he gasped.

Am listening, I said reluctantly.

You are matured enough. It's eight years of marriage and to God be the glory we are blessed with three kids already, I intend to...... He stammered.

Please continue my love, I said faintly caressing his back.

Ok. I need a young girl as a second wife that will satisfy my desires, especially when you are busy with kids.

I stood up, staring at him with surprise and seated on the opposite cushion chair.

Is the young girl not going to be in my condition someday? Am I not satisfying you? I sq**rt angrily.

Listen, I have made my decision, it's my right to marry as many as I want even though you are satisfying me. I need a taste of a different Woman, a young girl. And it's a Sunnah!

What a misconception! A covet !! What you desired for is not a Sunnah but a selfish desire which can lead you into a burning fire after death. I gave a chide reply.

How? My husband asked amazingly.

If you want to practice Polygamy according to Sunnah, I will encourage you to do as the prophet did. Marry a poor unattracted widow or divorcee for the sake of Allah and take care of her fatherless children justly as you care for our kids. I admonished him aptly.

How dare you stop me from following my heart desires? I need a young lady and am going to get married to one In Shaa Alllah!. He made the command.

It's okay. I hope you feel remorseful and be contented, before your heart desires swerve you from the way of Allah and Sunnah.

He left the house with annoyance, while I was still seated and lost in thought. I so amazed and trembled in fear!.

To Be Continued...

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By :Queen Habeebah Ibraheem
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04/09/2022

In Pains I Write!

Should she ma******te or commit adultery?

Has our Men forgotten females have s*xual urge?

He has already taken a step of marrying another wife, with ingenue reason of not being satisfied by his wife.

He couldn't spend much time at home because he's geting a new lover whom he spends more time with.

He beat and nag at his wife, making her wife scared of him and hurt always.

He later stopped beating his wife after receiving my Counselling but decided to follow his desires.

His wife was grateful for not being punch anymore but complained bitterly of being emotionally hurt, her needs wasn't provided, above all she's not s*xually satisfied as the husband never cares about her urge.

He couldn't satisfy his wife, yet he intend to take a young lady as a second wife. Why?

It's disgusting and mostly as a result of lack of proper upbringing, indiscipline and Ignorance.

Should the wife satisfy herself through Adultery or Ma********on?!!

A lot of home today are going through this exact problem or a related type.

Cheating on their spouse which is damn disgusting and going into polygamy without proper consideration out of selfish heart desires.

Dear Men, think twice and amend your ways. Following your heart desires might lead you and your innocent wife into a miserable life.

Everybody has desires and urges to mate different opposite s*x as we get attracted to each other.

But. Self-control, Sober, Discipline will help you to find contentment in your partner.

Above all lowering one's gaze, spending time with others and sharing feelings, thoughts with your partner for quick unravelment of any challenges or plights will help you keep a healthy satisfied and contented Union.

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24/08/2022

Never Try It! If You Want An Healthy Relationship / Marriage.

Double dating is the common mistake some partners failed to abstain from.

In a real thinking, dating more than one person at a time is cheating and can't leads to healthy union.

Avoid double dating while in a relationship.

If you are married, avoid frequent communications, flirt chats with your ex-partner or any opposite s*x.

I didn't say you shouldn't keep friends, but they should be limitations. Let your partner be your best friend and chat mate instead.

Double dating shows a red flag of loosing your lovely partner.

Because, no one in his/her real sense will like his/her partner to keep a secret affairs with someone else.

As a married man or woman, it's awkward to keep a secret affairs outside your Marrital relationship with an ex-partner or someone else.

You should be contented and know that, those you are keeping affairs with aren't destined for you, if they were meant for you, you would have being married to them

Keeping them is disgusting because you are cheating!. So let them go, find reasons to love and care for your wedded partner and build a healthy union forever.

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06/08/2022

You Needs To Accentuate The Attraction In You.

They are simple unique ways to brings out your attractiveness, and makes you feel satisfied with your partner.

In most cases, women are always advised to dress s*xy and look good for their partners, either by colourful face make up, side walking and dressing.

Some women got it, and they flaunt it, while others find it difficult to practice it, or easily get fed up over it.

The greatest mistake, most Men ever made, is not trying their best to look good, gives attention and spend time with their partners frequently.
That's why some women get fed up over accentuating their beauty, because they are always trying to have their partners satisfied and pleased, while their partners never care much about them.

A man who loves to look good for his wife and have her satisfied in all ramifications, has the greatest percentage of being satisfied by his partner.

But when a man is being selfish. And never cares about his wife needs and satisfaction, It will be hard for his wife to have him satisfied too.

I had a Counseling with a Man who said he's wife doesn't feel for him nor satisfy him and that's why he needs a second wife. I asked him some important questions, and find out, he didn't satisfy his wife needs and urge too.

As a man, if you need your wife's satisfaction and attraction. Then try your best to please her. Always look attractive to her. Never nag or be harsh to her. Don't have her stressed so much, never talk to her tactlessly and don't let her to be scared of you.

Rather. Assist her in the daily chores, and don't get her stressed much.

Make her your play and fun mate, and she will enjoy you more and feel for you.

Be free with her always, bath with her and look neat and attractive to each other.

Before sleeping, have some fun chats with her and makes her wear the best clothes that will bring out her wonderful shape and beauty.

Always remind her you love her and she's beautiful, don't forget to surpprise her with gifts and flowers often.

Teach her what you like, Pet her, treat her like a Queen, and call her lovely names with respect.

Definitely you will find satisfaction in her.

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02/08/2022

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It helps us accentuate the best value to children around us and our colleagues.

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30/07/2022

You Are Special And Different!

We are indeed created differently, so stop trending other people's creature.

Never underrate yourself or feel low, we are humans and have flaws.

They are undefined stories or hidden flaws behind the person you fancy so much.

Unknown to you, you feel fury because you weren't like them. You look down on yourself and let go of your dream ambition.

Because you think they are more than you and you lack perfection!

God created us differently for a purpose well known to him alone.

He made you well! So, be contented and never forget to accentuate the best in you.

Never feel worthless, resentment and shaky because you think you can make it.

No matter what challenges you are going through, never give up!

Don't ever forget to Love! keep Loving who you are.

Never forget to Shine! keep Shining like a star. 🌟

"They's something so special God enjoined in everyone!

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