12/07/2025
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BEFORE YOU SAY I DO!
The boat of many marriages have been rocked and even capsized, by hidden secrets that crawl out to hunt the present!
It cuts across men and women alike!
It may be about having had a child or children before, infections, sicknesses, false status or lifestyle, infertility, lies and false in formation, hidden attitudes or affairs. It could also be fathering, another person's child. The list is endless...
Yes, a lot of people like to hide some information about themselves, just to gain undue advantage! But when they are caught or exposed, they beg for forgiveness!
When you realise you are on the wrong lane, and a dangerous one at that, please turn back for peace, safety and life! The message is very clear!
It is better to take some time to know a prospective spouse very well before engagement! Six months or more of continues interactions and acquaintance!
You need to meet spouse family, friends, old school mates, religious group members, close neighbours co-workers and business associates or partners, and observe how he or she reacts under different times, places and scenarios, including their opinions about him or her!
Some persons hide a lot of information, character, behaviour and habits before marriage! Run a thorough background check, as much as possible, up the groundparents! It is worth the trouble! Try to know what is being kept from you. Family members, including parents and siblings, sometimes hid important information from a prospective son lnlaw or daughter inlaw, only to later say: " we thought you knew".
Marriage is a lifelong venture! It is journey through out life, as much as possible! Part of the preparation is information and intelligence gathering! Data analysis of the information so gathered is very vital to making a data driven decision on whether to take the plunge or not. Endeavour to brain-storm with questions and answers, discussions, opinions, future plans, dreams and aspirations.
Have a high level of satisfaction to back you final decision, before you take it!