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22/09/2024

IF ADAM AND EVE WERE TOGETHER IN THE GARDEN, THE DEVIL WOULD NOT HAVE COME IN.

My wife and I boarded a bus to orie Mbieri in mbieri one certain day. We were both seated at the back seat talking and laughing over some issues.

We loved to gossip a lot. It had become so used to us. And because we were so used to each other, we playfully teased each other with insults we didn't mean.

My wife said something that annoyed me. But because we were both in the bus, I could not react. I called her an ugly woman so as to get back at her. I told her she looked like ogbanje's grandmother.

"Don't even talk to me till we come down from this bus." I spoke with all seriousness.

"Yes and you too. Don't talk to me." She retorted.

"Fine. Let's see who talks to who first. We shall see."

She knew I was angry, and she was also angry at me too for taking a mare joke serious.

We stopped talking and simply sat like strangers in the bus.

When we got to a park, the bus stopped and this very handsome looking guy entered the bus and sat beside my wife.

I noticed he kept taking frequent glances at my wife. She noticed it and tried to hold my hands, but I pulled my hands away from her angrily and turned towards the other side without saying a word.

"Hello beautiful." The young guy grinned at her.

His smiles were so magnetic. When I turned and saw his set of white teeth and pink lips, I feared for myself.

My wife didn't reply him. She kept her head face front and pretended not to hear anything.

"Where could a beautiful woman like you be going to? Really if I had a car I wouldn't let you take a bus."

As if that was not enough, he whispered into my wife ears and the next thing my wife bursted out in a wild laughter - a laughter I had not seen her laugh before. Some of the passengers had to even turn to look at her.

Then the guy went on.

"Are you married? I noticed the ring on your hand."

"Yes dear, I am married." My wife replied. "But don't worry, I am currently having issues with my husband. He said I am ugly. This morning he told me that I look like Ogbanje younger sister. He insulted me."

"He must be crazy. Who insults a beautiful woman like you? You are pretty. Don't mind him. I think he is blind. Some men these days don't appreciate their wives."

I turned and looked at the man. I felt like removing three teeth from the man's mouth with just one punch. But I remembered the fight with my wife and just kept quiet.

"Yes o. I am not minding him. At least someone has told me I am beautiful and wherever he is, I just hope he is hearing now o."

The young man laughed.

"You have a good sense of humour. I will love to have your number. We can be great friends."

That was where I did not hold it again.

I simply held my wife by her shoulders and pulled her close to me. I landed one original kiss on her lips and she started laughing.

Bros realised that I was her husband and suddenly became cold. He told the conductor he had reached his destination and wanted coming down. I believe he felt so embarrassed. I will if I was caught in his shoes.

While the bus drove, my wife asked me.

"Shey you say you won't talk to me? Why are you holding me and kissing me in public?"

"Ah! I had to identify and protect my property o. All these fine boys of now a days. They have no respect for people husbands again."

My wife laughed and rested her head on my shoulders.

This is exactly what happens when you quarrel with your spouse. The devil steps in and takes advantage of one partner just to destroy your relationship.

A preacher once asked the congregation.

"Do you think if Adam and Eve were together in the garden, the serpent would have still come?"

Well, I do not think so. He waited patiently for them until they were both apart, before he chose one partner and struck swiftly.

Hold on to your partner like an egg. Make peace with your lover. Show the devil that he can't have his way in your relationship or marriage. Do not give chance to the devil - do not allow the devil strike.

21/08/2024

Do cheaters cheat because their partner can't satisfy them?

I can only speak for myself, so I will tell you why I cheated - but first let me clarify that this is NOT an excuse, but the “reason” rather. Having said that - there is no “reason” good enough to cheat on your spouse. My cheating on my husband of many years was terribly wrong and looking back, I should have handled how I was feeling differently, which may have prevented all of the pain and heartbreak that I caused. I deeply regret having cheated and I lost the love of my life because of it. I hurt so many people but most of all my husband and children.

I decided to share my story as a cautionary tale in the hopes that someone cheating on their spouse - or thinking of cheating, may read this and make a better decision than I did and not cause their loved ones the pain that I caused my spouse, children, family, and friends.

I deeply loved my husband and was still in love with him after 20+ years of marriage. All throughout our marriage however, I felt as if my husband (now ex husband) did not make me and our children the priority in his life. He was a workaholic and I felt lonely, and like the kids and I were always competing with his business or with other people for his time and attention. This led to questioning my worth to him, then to questioning my own self-worth, and eventually to bitterness, and a sense of defeat. Over the years I tried to tell him how I felt, but I now know that I didn’t try hard enough - or try in such a way that he understood the degree to which I was feeling lonely or feeling as if I wasn’t a priority in his life. I wasn’t clear enough. I should have checked for understanding and I should have given him time to change his behavior. I should have also prayed for guidance and help from God.

What happened instead was that I met someone at work who was experiencing something similar in his marriage and instead of telling my husband my deepest feelings of loneliness and unworthiness, I told him. This led to an emotional affair with him and eventually to a romantic/sexual affair. I (mistakenly) felt as if this person was the “answer” to how I had been feeling. Of course he was not.

After my husband found out about the affair, I tried so hard to undo the hurt that I had caused and make it up to him, but he was never able to get over the betrayal, and things were never the same again between us. I will probably never know the extent of the hurt and pain that I caused the people that I love the most.

If you are reading this and are “flirting” with the idea of having an affair, PLEASE don’t. It is never the “answer” and it can never be undone. You will only cause heartache and pain to others and to yourself. If you are reading this and are already having an affair, I strongly urge you to stop. Talk to your spouse about how you are feeling, tell your spouse what you feel is missing in your marriage. Be specific, and be willing to do it several times if that is what it takes. Put your pride aside (or anything else that prevents you from sharing your feelings with your spouse). I also pray that you will turn to God for help and invite Him into your marriage and follow His guidance towards healing and towards the solution.

Please give your spouse the opportunity and the time to change. In doing so, you may change your marriage. You may be able to solve the problem(s) together. You may be able to spare your spouse and children excruciating pain and heartbreak. Even if your marriage doesn’t survive, you won’t regret doing the right thing.
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