The Daily Dose

26/11/2025

Salam, I'm a 24y m student, so i liked a girl from my childhood like from class 7,8 but during my 1st year of bachelors study i found out that she's getting married. I wasn't talking to her at that time and i wasn't stable financially either so i didn't do anything because i wasn't capable and i thought would find another girl later in life like her. But after 2,3 years I learned that we come across such people only once or twice and my grief of losing her only grew stronger with time.
during those 2,3 years i also met another girl online and i thought ill keep it casual like everyone do but after few months of talking to her on calls and meeting her twice (shes from another city) in real life i got attached to her even though she was a total red flag. I dont know how attachment developed and she confessed and then i confessed too. Then i started believing that ill love her too much that she will become a good person and will start treating me right. Shes not a bad person by heart that i can tell but she does things which hurt me. She is careless about how shes making me feel maybe she dont get the idea that my chest physically hurts and i get severe anxiety whenever shes rude with me or ignores me just because she doesnt want to talk. I can go into details but it would be lengthy.
So cutting to the point i dont know what to do whetther to keep talking to her and keep getting hurt. Or change my thinking(compromising) and keep talking to her without getting hurt which i really dont know how to do. Or just end the relationship.
Everytime i end the relationship somehow we ag*in get in touch after few months. I'm so confused how to move on from the attachment. I'm a man with very gentle and soft corner only for her. I dont face such problems in other aspects of life. Please guide me how to be emotionally mature. I get emotional and start begging her whenever we're about to break up and regret it later. If i dont beg and let breakup happen, i still regret it later when loneliness takes over.
I still think i should've taken a stand for the first girl which i told earlier, due to same fear of regretting maybe i dont let go of my present girl now.
I know I'm stupid in this regard you people can make fun as you want but mai apne hatho majboor hu. Jab raat k 12 bajte hn to sari mardaangi nikal jati he. Sirf kisi ka sath chahiyeh hota hai.

25/11/2025

I turned 21 last month and I am struggling to explain this to my family. I am a female and I want to get married as soon as possible. My mother keeps saying “2–3 saal main kar dein gy” and she has been saying this for the past two years. This increases my fear of not getting married.

Alhamdulillah, I am stable in my career and practical in life. I also know how to manage a home. I want a partner who is ambitious and serious about building a future. I do not want to fall into haram, but my physical needs are getting difficult to control, especially during my ovulation period. This is a physical need and not something I can just switch off.

I am tall, 5'6, with very long hair, but I do not want to showcase myself in front of rishtay wali aunties. I want to find the right person in a modest and respectful way.

I pray a lot to Allah to make things easy for me, and please remember me in your prayers too.

Please help me understand how I can get married soon and find the right person without compromising my values.

25/11/2025

Pls hide my identity...
Dear Admin please approve my post.

I m 29Y M. in mid of 2023 got engaged with csn after my education. She is now 19Y (Almost 10y younger than me) after engagement she blocked me from every single Social media platform at the start of 2025 i contact her and asked are you happy with me tell me if you are not happy i will break this engagement but she said i m happy with this, that's we start chatting everything was ok( wo mujh sy buhot piyar krny lgi mry ghussy ko bardasht krti samajhti mujhy choti age hony k bawajood) but after few months mujhy ussky ik relation ka pata usska classmate tha mn nay mangetor sy pocha uss bary mn ghussy sy to wo rony lg g*i k aisa kuch nhi tha hamary beach mn ny engagement k baad kisi sy koi rabta nhi kia but mn ess bat k peechy lg gya k jaan k hi rhn ga recently kuch comments dekhy uss larky ki videos pe. Mangetor sy pocha to ph sy rony lg g*i k poetry pe kiay thy ye comments ( comments engagement k baad k thy) to hamara jhagra hua bat ussky ghr tak puhanch g*i usski maan b safaian deny lag g*i to mn chup kr gya kio apna hi ghr hy, lekan jhagry k baad wo kehti hy tmny mujhy kho dia khud sy door kr dia ab mn ghussa krn ya bura bolon to Block krny tak aa jati hy. Jo mujh pe marti meri minnatain krti ab Block krny ki dhamki deti hy bat b buhot kam krti hy rat ki neend ab usski zarori ho g*i khair pehly b wo kehti k ghar waly nhi chor rhy mtlb bat buhot kam karti thi par piyar buhot krti har bat manti lekan ab bat b kam krti hy bat b nhi manti awr dhamkian b deti hy, Mazzy ki bat mujhy kai bar bol chuki k shadi kro jaldii. Lekan sath ajeeb behave hy ab usska bolti hy tm kuch nhi kr sakty hum fazool mn batain kr rhy ik dosry ka time zaya kr rhy.

Dono families yhi chahti hn k ye rishta ho jay Mangetor b yhi chahti hy shadi krny ka b bol rhi k shadi k baad tm set ho jao gy, sary khush hn par jb sy ye affair usska pata chla hy wo buhot badal g*i mery dil mn b ab wo jaga nhi usski. Buhot preshan rehta hu mn har waqt soch soch k job pe b dhehan nhi jata na neend aati hy essi affair ki soch pari rehti hy. Jesy mjhy shak ki koi beemari lg g*i ho.... Kio k mn buhot introvert hu kisi sy koi relation nhi rakha aj tak.

25/11/2025

Hey Plz Hide my Identity Male 39 here being married since 12 years having 2 Kids i am currently leaving abroad my problem is that i tried many times to get second marriage but my wife does not agree despite that her family disease is Hempophailia a bleeding disorder where mother is the carrier and due to this my child is suffering from above mentioned disease the Doctor told us that to stop more childs as it might b effected too from same disease now someone plz suggest me that what should i do and how to convince my wife to let me allow for second marriage because i cant betray her.

expect useful suggestions and advice in this regards will be highly appreciated

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