25/08/2026
Have you built a business that only works when you're at your best — or one that has enough room for you to be human?
When you're running a business on your own, it seems to feel normal to operate at full capacity. There is always something more you could be doing. More clients to find, more content to create, more ideas to develop, more things to improve. And because you can do it, operating at full capacity can slowly become your normal.
But what about when life happens?
Illness. Grief. Family responsibilities. Divorce. A difficult season. Or simply a period when you don't have the same energy, creativity or focus you usually have.
We often think the challenge in those seasons is how to deal with what happened while somehow continuing with our normal life and business. But our normal expectations were created for a different level of capacity.
If the business already leaves no room for you to be human, an unexpected hard season only makes that visible.
I'm beginning to think that leaving some capacity unused isn't wasted potential. I see my energy as part of the infrastructure of my business. When I work from excitement, purpose, creativity and a healthy challenge, the work can require a lot from me and still energize me. But that's very different from working from the constant pressure of I need to make this work, I need to find clients, I need to keep posting, I need to stay consistent, I can't stop.
I always loved the idea of building a business around life, not building life around work. And I think part of that is accepting that we're not going to have the same capacity in every season.
This is what Rachel Tamilio and I explored in our latest podcast episode, When Life Chooses the Messy Middle for You. We talked about something I think we don't prepare for enough: What does life and business need to look like when you're operating at minimum capacity?
Not because we can control what life brings, but because some decisions are much easier to make before we're in the middle of grief, illness, overwhelm or another difficult season.
If this is something you've been thinking about too, listen to the episode. And if you want to take the idea further, I've also created a Plan B checklist to help you think through what you would protect, pause, automate, delegate or ask for help with if your capacity suddenly changed.
I'll put both links in the comments.
And I'm curious: how much room does your business give you to not be at your best?