06/26/2026
The counteroffer — a small move that is often the difference between closing and losing a deal.
A counteroffer is your response to an offer that changes something about it. The price, the closing date, the contingencies, the inclusions, the earnest money. Anything in the contract.
Here is what most people do not realize: a counteroffer legally terminates the original offer. So if a seller counters at a higher price and the buyer walks away, the seller cannot then turn around and accept the original offer. It is gone.
That makes counteroffers a strategic move, not a casual one. I have seen sellers lose deals because they countered for another $5,000 when the buyer was already stretched and motivated — and I have seen buyers lose homes because they countered on a minor inspection item the seller took as a signal of bad faith.
A good counteroffer does three things:
One, it shows you are still at the table. The tone matters. It should feel like a move toward a deal, not a move away from one.
Two, it addresses what actually matters. Do not counter on trivial items. Save your leverage for what moves the needle.
Three, it gives the other side a reason to say yes. Price alone rarely does that. Timing, certainty, and structure often do.
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