09/05/2026
PSA for anyone whose body has changed, or is in the middle of changing. ❤️
I want you to hear this: There is nothing wrong with your clothing size changing.
I’m saying that to myself as much as I’m saying it to you.
I’ve basically been the same clothing sizes for most of my adult life. But lately, that size isn’t serving me anymore.
I found myself frustrated and discouraged, trying to squeeze into pants that were too small simply because I didn’t want to go up a size.
A size on a tag that, by the way, no one else even sees.
So this week, I bought some pants in a larger size. I’m not going to lie, it was hard. There was definitely a moment in the dressing room.
But then I put them on.
They fit.
I could breathe.
I wasn’t uncomfortable.
And I actually felt BETTER in my clothes.
And it hit me: Why am I giving a tiny number hidden inside my pants this much power?
Our bodies change throughout our entire lives. From our teenage years to childbearing years to menopause and beyond our bodies were never meant to stay exactly the same forever.
So I have two choices. I can cut the size tag out (and yes, I’ve done that before 😂), OR I can give myself some grace and remember that a changing body doesn’t change my worth.
We are so quick to see beauty in other women.
Her hair is gorgeous.
Her eyes are so beautiful.
She has the greatest shape.
And then we turn around and say things to ourselves that we would NEVER say to another woman.
I’m working on changing that.
Maybe you need this reminder today too:
Buy the pants that fit the body you have today.
Personal style isn’t about forcing your body into a certain size. It’s about learning how to dress the body you have now, feeling comfortable in your clothes, and walking out the door with confidence.
Whether you’re 30, 40, 50 or beyond your body may change.
Your worth doesn’t. ❤️
And if you’ve been fighting with a size on a tag lately, I hope you’ll give yourself a little grace too.
Tell me I’m not the only one who’s had a dressing room moment over a number on a tag? ❤️