Writefully Inspires

07/25/2025

Technology, Language, and the Layers of Age

Nearly 20 years ago, my mother entered hospice care. She was graceful, poised, and timeless—yet I remember the overnight nurse casually referring to her as “elderly.” The word struck me like a misplaced label. My mother? A ballerina. Always radiant. Always youthful in spirit.

Today, on my 68th birthday, I finally understand what I couldn’t back then.

I don’t feel old. But I’m starting to see how the world subtly tells me otherwise.

A medical assistant recently swabbed my throat for strep—then confidently added, “It’s probably negative. Only young people get that.” (Spoiler: It was positive.)

My ophthalmologist applauded my 20/20 vision, then explained the “pseudo-something” floating in my eye. “It’s like dandruff,” he said. “Part of aging.”

Another doctor offered a preventative medication for concerns about potential infection “because it comes with age.”

My smart scale thinks I’m five years older than I am. But not to worry—some fitness app has me at 48.9. Somewhere between technology’s logic and my mirror’s honesty lies the truth.

Yes, my arms have crepey skin. My legs have their roadmap of veins. And sometimes, names slip through the cracks in my memory.

But I still laugh hard. Think deeply. Create with purpose.

And as my husband likes to joke, “Birthdays are good for your health—the more you have, the longer you live.”

So today, call me older. Call me seasoned. Call me experienced, wise, vintage, or even classic.

But please—don’t call me elderly.

07/14/2025

The Barnegat Lighthouse, affectionately known as Old Barney, has stood watch over the Jersey Shore since 1859 — guiding sailors, standing guard over turbulent waters, and serving as a symbol of strength, safety, and perseverance.

For more than a century, this iconic structure has helped people find their way — not just on the sea, but in life. Locals and visitors alike look to Old Barney for inspiration, a reminder that even when the path isn’t clear, there’s always light to guide the journey.

In the last couple of years, the lighthouse underwent a full restoration — scaffolding wrapped its frame, workers tended to every brick and beam, and slowly but surely, the wear and tear of time gave way to something renewed. A lighthouse reborn — standing taller and stronger, yet still proudly rooted in its history.

At Writefully Inspires, we see writing in the same way. A first draft may be rough. A life story may feel scattered. A business message might be hidden beneath cluttered words. But like Old Barney, your message has the power to shine — with a little rebuilding, refinement, and heart.

Whether it’s:

Capturing your family legacy for future generations

Telling your nonprofit’s story in a way that moves people

Crafting a resume that helps you navigate new career waters

Or transforming grief into a meaningful tribute

We’re here to help your words become a beacon.

Because just like the lighthouse, inspiration doesn’t fade — it evolves.

Find your light with Writefully Inspires.

07/13/2025

Several years ago, after the sudden passing of a dear friend, I began a project called 365 Days of Gratitude to honor her memory. Each day, I shared something or someone I was thankful for — and soon, others began looking forward to the daily dose of positivity. Some even waited to see if they’d be included.

Since then, life has taken me on new paths — most recently as a journalist for JerseyShoreOnline.com, where I’ve had the privilege of sharing the stories that shape our local community.

One of my friends recently reminded me that what I used to call coincidences or messages from God are often known as “God Winks.” I love that expression — because sometimes, people enter your life in ways that feel like just that: a divine nudge, a quiet blessing.

With two exceptions, every one of the people in today’s post entered my life through my local reporting. And we all share something sacred: We begin our Sundays worshiping together.

Let me introduce you to today’s God Winks — each one a soul who reminds me why Writefully Inspires exists: to honor stories that matter, to recognize goodness, and to preserve what moves us.

✨ Front and center: Pastor Dawn Corlew of the United Methodist Church in Waretown. Though I was raised Catholic, her inclusive, heartfelt services reach me deeply — especially the way she brings children into the message.

🎅 Top left: The incredible Mr. and Mrs. Claus — local treasures who give their time, love, and magic to bring joy to countless hearts.

🧏‍♂️ Below them: Anthony, an inspiring young man who was born deaf and autistic. He teaches at a local college and shares his gifts by helping others learn American Sign Language.

🏳️‍🌈 Top right: Carrie — who bravely founded a Pride group in a town where the LGBTQ+ community has often felt unwelcome. With her are two people who inspire me daily: My daughter, Dr. Chrissy (who just earned her doctorate in social work), and my grandson Tommy, who lives his life with unmatched kindness.

🐾 Bottom center: My friend Michele, whose heart for service includes working with therapy dogs in local schools — one of many ways she’s shown up in stories and in life.

Each of these people is a God Wink. Each one Writefully Inspires me. And in just a few hours, I’ll get to see them all again — to remind them of the light they bring to the world.

💛 If you’re looking to honor someone who inspires you, consider letting me help tell their story. That’s what Writefully Inspires is all about.

07/12/2025

The origin of the concept of Writefully Inspired started with intents of providing a means to be a body that Writefully Inspires comes from a heavenly sign.

First, as the company's founder, I've always enjoyed writing to express my thoughts. My first award of recognition of my abilities came when I was in the sixth grade. I have no idea why I won a prayer contest back then - but it seems my belief in divine inspiration started early.

In any event, even as a woman of faith, I've admitted to my doubts. Today, there are many questioning why the floods in Texas have taken so many lives - including those of young children camping together in a Christian camp.

For me, there was the time -- that I myself questioned God's existence.

I was working as a paralegal in a law office in my early 30s when I learned that one of our secretaries was diagnosed with cancer of the aorta. Karen seemingly had the perfect life -- three children and a devoted husband.

I remember walking away as my secretary gave me the news. I mumbled under my breath -- "There couldn't possibly be a God to give Karen cancer."

It was before the days of computers and cellphones. My office phone had a small display screen that showed the number you'd dialed and nothing else. I called a former colleague and friend who'd moved on to another law firm.

What I heard on the other end, took me by surprise as a female voice began -- "Hail Mary, Full of Grace.."

Startled, I said -- "Excuse me?"

The voice paused briefly -- "The Lord is with Thee."

I looked at the display on the phone. It was the number of the law firm I'd dialed. I hung up and hit redial.

Another voice answered professionally with the name of the law firm. There is no doubt in my mind that it was a sign from God that He was very much around. And, since then, I feel as if the Blessed Mother has always been a strong part of my life.

When we bought our present home nearly a decade ago, a statue of Mary was in the closet. I asked the estate of the prior owner if we could keep it. It's now on my dresser. Weirdly - or perhaps just because God has a clever sense of humor - one was in my daughter's home when she bought it. Mary has a place there as well.

And as one further reminder -- the day we closed on our home at the Jersey Shore and came to do the final inspection, my husband looked down and handed me something. A small miraculous Mary medal was sitting just beneath our front tire.

Some may call these all coincidences, although an old friend once told me they are messages from God. A relative has coined an expression to say they are "God-incidences."

Whatever the case, putting faith in the unknown might not be easy for some - but it's what makes Writefully Inspires a quest to make others recognize there is hope even when days seem dark.

07/10/2025

For more than a decade, we’ve proudly operated under the name WritefullyInspired. It’s a name rooted in the way we’ve been moved by the world around us, by people’s stories, and by the power of words.

But now, it’s time for something more active. More present. More purposeful.

We’re excited to announce our new name: Writefully Inspires.

Because it’s not just about how we’ve been inspired—it’s about how we inspire others.

Over the years, we've helped clients land jobs with compelling resumes, crafted website content that captures heart and mission, written eulogies that honor lives beautifully lived, and told stories that deserve to be remembered.

Our chief writer, Stephanie Faughnan, continues to write for a prominent Jersey Shore newspaper—and she’s back to expanding her storytelling here, too. It’s all about making a difference and preserving memories in meaningful ways.

Whether you're starting a business, honoring a loved one, or sharing your personal journey—Writefully Inspires is here to help bring your story to life.

Follow us, share with a friend, and reach out when you’re ready to write something that matters.

05/27/2024

The heavens are crying today from those who shed their blood for our country - and see the lack of unity and strife here on earth.

As we remember the fallen, perhaps we can all benefit from returning to our core values.

God rest the souls of those who served - and grant them eternal peace - that which we so need here on earth.

01/29/2024

Like a lighthouse on a rocky coast, be a symbol of resilience, standing tall against the crashing waves of life.

10/18/2023

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08/11/2023

We often associate legacy planning with legal jargon and the distribution of assets, but it's so much more than that. It's about the footprints we leave in the sands of time, the stories we etch into the hearts of others, and the impact we make that goes beyond the worldly possessions. 💫

Just like those impressive sandcastles that stand tall against the waves, some legacies are grand and awe-inspiring. Yet, they too can be washed away by the tides of time. 🏖️💔

But then, there are those who leave behind ideas, dreams, and inspiration. They build bridges between generations, connecting us to the essence of their lives. 🌉🌠 These are the marks that weather can't erode, the thoughts that become the guiding stars for others.

Now, here's the heart of the matter: What do you want your legacy to be? 🌱🌏

For me, it's simple. I want my words to have made a difference. I want them to resonate, to uplift, and to ignite change. I want my thoughts to spark conversations that lead to actions, actions that create a ripple effect of positivity. 🌊🗣️

So, let's have a little heart-to-heart in the comments. What legacy do you dream of leaving behind? 💬✨ Is it a towering sandcastle of achievements, or is it the lasting imprint of your ideas? Maybe it's something entirely different! Let's inspire each other to think beyond the present, to shape our futures in ways that resonate with who we are at our core.

Here's to our legacies, beautifully intricate and as diverse as the stars in the sky! 🌌✨ Let's keep the conversation going and shape a legacy that truly matters. 💬🌟

07/15/2023

07/11/2023

📚🖋️ Embrace your inner author and make your life a captivating bestseller!

Each day presents a new page, a fresh chapter to craft. You hold the pen, and the power is in your hands.

Write a story filled with courage, love, and adventure. Explore uncharted territories, conquer your fears, and let your passions ignite the plot.

Paint vivid descriptions of laughter, kindness, and memorable moments. Surround yourself with supporting characters who uplift and inspire. Together, you'll create beautiful chapters filled with lasting memories.

Remember, bestsellers are not just tales of perfection but stories of growth and triumph over adversity. Embrace the lessons, celebrate the victories, and let your resilience shine through every page.