03/12/2024
It’s been 6.5-weeks since our baby boy, Beni, was born. Being a first-time parent has been challenging. There really is no preparation for the lifestyle shift, and no matter who you talk to, you will consistently hear conflicting information. This includes people from the medical field.
The freedoms you once had will be eliminated. You will then be accustomed to feeding this mini human every 2-3 hours while changing diapers 10+ times/day, wiping away f***s and urine, as they scream at the top of their lungs and grunt uncontrollably. Your patience will slip away as your sleep deteriorates.
The main question is… when does it truly get “better” for parents with a newborn? I have heard everything from 4-weeks to 6-months. I have also heard that it doesn’t get better; you just get used to it. It also varies if you have help from others including family, daycare, or hiring outside help, like a nanny.
I had always wanted to be a dad, and it was a major life decision for me. I asked myself if I was financially able, if I had a strong support system, and if I had the right partner to do it with. All humans are flawed creatures, and as fun as they may be in a relationship, would they be good parents? Would I be a good parent?
At this stage of parenthood, I am analyzing when it gets better… Currently, it still sucks! 😂📉 I wouldn’t recommend it (yet). When do babies start to smile? When do they develop their own personalities? Let’s see after 8-weeks. 🫣
