09/28/2026
What a Rainy Sunday Taught Me About Dementia Caregiving
On Sunday afternoon, I was driving home after dropping my daughter off at work. The rain was coming down hard. Up ahead, I noticed a woman standing on the side of the road beside an elderly woman lying on the ground.
I pulled over, rolled down my window, and asked if she needed me to call for help. She asked me to call the police. I had assumed the woman on the ground needed paramedics.
The woman on the ground was her mother. Her father had passed away three months earlier. Her mother, who lives with dementia, was convinced her husband was still alive and that her daughter was keeping them apart.
The entire time we spoke, her mother shouted that her daughter was "a very bad person and a liar."
The daughter looked exhausted. Worn down. Close to breaking.
After I called the police, I asked whether she was caring for her mother on her own. She told me her sister lives with them but was at work.
My heart broke for both of them.
Imagine believing that the person you shared decades of your life with is still alive, and that your own children are standing between you. Now imagine being that daughter: standing in the rain, watching your mother lie on the ground, hearing her call you a liar when all you are trying to do is keep her safe.
Dementia is a cruel disease. It takes a person's memories, their sense of reality, and often their ability to recognize the love surrounding them. And it places an enormous weight on the people who care for them, much of it invisible to the rest of us.
At GW Health Agency, we spend our days helping tell the stories of patients and the families who support them. Moments like this one are a powerful reminder of what caregivers carry every single day, often without recognition or relief.
To everyone caring for a loved one with dementia: I see you. Your patience, your love, and your strength matter more than you know. Stay strong, and please reach out for support when you need it.
Aleisia Gibson Wright
Founder and President, GW Health Agency