04/10/2026
How much money is staying stuck in your head costing you?
If every setback reinforces your failure narrative, you're going to struggle to keep sending the pitch, tweak the messaging, and keep showing up in your marketing.
^^^This is what has so many business owners and talented freelancers quitting and going back to a day job... When they simply didn't give their marketing a chance to work.
We don't talk enough about the emotional resilience required to wait it out til it works, trusting it *will* work before you have evidence. And not just passive waiting- showing up and risking rejection, again and again. Experimenting with your messaging until it lands. Being willing to hear 7 nos in a row in one day and showing up to your 8th call smiling, calm, composed, and confident.
Of course there are serious mental health implications! (More info in the Entrepreneur article I linked in the comments. Major content warning though.)
And hereās where toxic Capitalism and hustle culture fail us: weāre taught that the way to deal with this is to not talk about it, avoid the feelings as much as possible, just work harder, try harder, be better.
And that sucks.
Youāre not a robot. Youāre a complicated organism. You need water and sunlight and food and care and movement and rest and fun and healing enough from your various traumas to not shut down when presented with big risks and big challenges- and, as an, entrepreneur, you will be presented with big risks and big challenges.
You also need community.
All of that is impossibly heavy to carry on your own. If youāve been trying to, no wonder youāve been shutting down, ghosting your marketing, avoiding reaching out to past clients, definitely not following up with prospects, or pitching new ones.
Part of giving it a fair shot to work is getting you the support you need to keep showing up. Cheerleaders, coaches, colleagues- other humans who get it, will allow you to voice your fears without trying to talk you out of your business, and will help you to take proactive steps to reach your goals.
When youāre not locked into the doom spiral in your head, marketing, messaging, and sales get to be an experiment, not a test. The failure narrative gets alchemized into lessons learned to laser focus your messaging, upgrade your strategy, know your aligned client inside and out, and make your marketing better and better- to the point you donāt even need a sales call! You just send them the link and they send you the money.
It makes it less lonely. It makes it more doable. It takes the heaviness away and adds the fun.
If youāre tired of being so stuck in your head you canāt figure out how to make marketing that stacks sales the way you want toā¦
Come work with me. I have 1:1 spots available with complimentary access to my club for extraordinary, radical, black sheep entrepreneurs with one-of-a-kind businesses.
You could turn this around so quickly.
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