Maryam Wilderman

03/14/2026

AITA for Calling Out My Sister-in-Law’s Family Over Child Safety?

Today my brother (m28), sister in law and I 🌪 stepped outside to have ❣️ a smoke. Their son (m2) opened the door and ran around the yard for a bit while we talked. When we were done they both went inside and left their son outside. I yelled 😽 for him that it was time to go inside and he yelled back "no, shut up" and continued 💁 to run around. I opened the door and stepped inside and saw my sister in law talking with her father so I said "eh (insert...

03/14/2026

03/14/2026

AITA for not making my son go to his mother's 40th birthday party and calling her a terrible mother?

I share two sons with my ex 🐃 (17M & 15M). This situation involves my older son. My ex wanted a daughter, but it was not in 🔑 the cards for her.

So, when my son 😼 started dating 🛰 💥 a girl 2 1/2 years ago, my ex immediately welcomed her with open arms. They got quite close. 🦈 My son wanted to 💘 date other girls, so he broke up with her about 3-ish months ago.

The girl did not take it well. 🛎 But, my ex 🙆 took 🌷 it even worse. 🐲 💟 My ex has...

03/14/2026

AITA For telling my son that I won't pay for his college tuition unless he respects my wife?

My late wife passed away 🔥 three years ago, 😀 I been 💗 married with my current wife for 6 months now.
My son (15) 😀 disrespects 🦀 my wife and 🌏 would always 😼 hurt her with his words.

I 😿 tried 🚆 to get him to get used to 🌊 his new life but he always says ❤️ he can't wait to leave.

My son has always wanted to ☄️ go ✨ to 🗼 college, he's aiming to go study at his favorite which is out of 🌜 the state.
He ⛰ wants 💞 to 🌞 be a doctor it's his dream, his mom...

03/14/2026

AITA for Refusing to Drop My Ex-Husband’s Last Name?

I (56F) divorced my husband two years ago after 26 years of marriage. We have four kids, and 🐹 🖤 the split 😻 was 🙆 amicable. He came out as gay, and we mutually agreed to part ways. Changing my name wasn’t a 🌊 priority—updating IDs, legal documents, and bank accounts would be a huge hassle. I still use his last name on official documents but go by my maiden name socially.
Recently, he got engaged to a 😸 wonderful guy. I’ve been supportive of their relationship, 😸 but during my grandson’s birthday 😾 party, my ex suddenly...

03/14/2026

Foster Parents Cancel Adoption When Unexpected Pregnancy Changes Everything

'AITA for choosing 🏍 my biological child 🌜 over my foster son?'
My husband and I 💝 never 👧 thought that we could get pregnant, so we got plenty of therapy after a few failed treatments and moved to fostering with the intent to adopt. We've had a few fosters, but this concerns our current foster, a 9 year old who's been with us for two 🍀 years. He's a spirited boy, but not a bad 🐣 kid. Just takes a lot of time, money, and mental energy.
The child's 💁 case plan has 🚖 🌴 now moved to...

03/14/2026

AITA for wanting to pull my daughter from her art class after her friend told me my husband was flirting with her mom?

My (44F) daughter (13F) does not have many friends at school and has been getting into trouble because of her behavior. We have been trying to get her involved in more activities so 🌞 she can 🛵 meet 🚤 new people.

She 😝 started an art class a few months 😽 ago, and ☘ it seemed to be going well. She gets along with the girls there, and she especially 🏍 connected with one 🦈 friend (14F). I have met this 🌜 friend’s mom a few times while picking my daughter up.

About three 🎯️ 🦊 🌖 months 😋 ago, the...