04/17/2026
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AM I OBLIGATED TO SPEND MY MONEY ON MY FRIEND'S KIDS?
I (27F) make good money in wealth management. My friend Kellie has 2 kids (5 & 3) who I adore and spoil. Every visit, I bring them gifts. Lately, we have less in common; her life revolves around her kids, while I'm still single and career-focused. Kellie and her husband struggle financially, so I often pay when we go out or do activities. During Black Friday shopping, I bought toys for underprivileged boys aged 8-15. When Kellie asked, I explained I "adopted" a family to give back during COVID. " She glared and said, "What do you mean you don't have kids to shop for? You could use it on MY kids, you know how much we struggle?" Her kids are already spoiled rotten by everyone! I exploded, saying I wanted to help children in NEED, especially with my bonus money. She burst into tears... I felt awful, but am I wrong for wanting to help others? [Read Full Story & Verdict] ⬇️