12/16/2025
My (33F) husband's (35M) brother's wife was talking s__t about my husband at our rehearsal dinner and saying really inappropriate things. She was causing a lot of drama that night and my friends kept coming up to tell me what was going on. After sister-in-law caused all this drama, her mother had the nerve to come up to ME and tell ME that I need to stop causing all this drama. She asks me why I hate her daughter - which I don't - and then she looks me up and down, tells me that my outfit is cute, smiles and walks away. Later in the night I saw sister-in-law, mother, and mother's date bickering together and then turning around and glaring at me. That made me realize, that was not the vibe I wanted at our wedding. My husband texted his parents explaining what had happening and they told us we should uninvite both of them and that they'd back us up. We ended up uninviting the mother and tried to keep the peace by letting sister-in-law keep her invite. Four days after we get home from our wedding and honeymoon, my husband got an email from SIL's mother asking him to reimburse her for all of her wedding expenses and going off about me and how I'm an a__hole for getting her uninvited from our destination wedding when she was already there. So, am I the a__hole?
