05/01/2026
I’m selfish for setting boundaries? 💭
My (28F) best friend (29F) just had a baby. A day later, she launched a GoFundMe for $2500 to cover the hospital bill. Now she's plastering it all over social media, begging our friend group to donate and share. I'm struggling. If she couldn't afford the hospital, why have a kid? I fear donating enables future begging. How will she afford the actual CHILD? More GoFundMe's for diapers? If I don't donate, she'll corner me, demanding an explanation. We have been growing apart as she is entitled and has never had a job, always relying on men. Gofundme's are for emergencies, not planned expenses. I'd gladly help with UNEXPECTED medical costs, but not this. She PLANNED this baby, timed it before 30, and her SO has a decent job! Am I the A-hole for refusing to donate? ... [Full Story + Community Vote] ⬇️