04/19/2026
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I (28M) have a friend whose bride-to-be is controlling and toxic. His personality changed completely—he gave up soccer, stopped seeing his college friends, and became reclusive. His parents are worried, and we try to support him. Recently, I was asked to walk his fiancée down the aisle because her father, shy and hatefully avoiding attention, refused. I have no relation to her, and it felt wrong to participate in what seems like an abusive relationship. I politely refused.
She exploded, screaming I’m a selfish a__hole, called her family, and claimed I was sabotaging the wedding. My friend went berserk—banging his fists, spitting, and ended our friendship instantly. I calmly left, telling her I’m not a dog to obey commands, and stayed away for days. I feel justified but some friends think I overreacted. AITA?
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