12/16/2025
My fiance was dating 'Katy' for years then they broke it off. She still comes around since she's close to his family. By how much time they had dpent together, Katy seems to know my fiance really well. That didn't bother me at first, but it became an issue when she asked that I let her give a speech st the wedding since she knows him well, and wanted to tell 'few funny' stories about him. I felt extremely uncomfortable and told her I was sorry but it didn't think if was appropriate for her to do that. My fmil got involved and started lecturing me saying I need to stop being negative and claimed I was making this 'about me' (but that's my wedding!) My fiance is choosing to stay out of it, but the pressure is on me now. I'm being called 'oversensitive' and needed to 'losses up' as this could be a good opportunity to add more laughter and joy to the event, but to be completely honest on here, I don't want his ex to take any part in our wedding, even if she's a friend of the family and they'd known her since she was a teenager.