12/08/2019
This is me, shortly after coming off the field at an ultimate frisbee tournament called Chesapeake Open.
I've been playing ultimate for the past ten years, most recently for a Brooklyn based team.
And Saturday, after coming off a particularly difficult point, it occurred to me: lawyers and athletes are the same.
Of course, the battles are different. Oftentimes for lawyers, the very lives and freedom of their clients is at stake. But the process is similar for both.
Both spend a tremendous amount of time, energy, and money, preparing to go to battle. And when the day comes - whether on a field or in a courtroom - we are out there fighting for something.
And possibly the scariest part is this: knowing that you may have done your best, and you still might come up short. You might put in the hours. You might make personal sacrifices. You might give everything you have to the cause - even when your body and mind are screaming to give up - and still not get the outcome you want.
To want something that bad and for it to fall apart isn't something that you can shake off.
I have been there. I have watched a game on the line slip away, seen the other team sprint out and embrace on the field when the final horn blows. I still remember those days, the look on my teammates' faces.
It is the same look on a lawyer's face the day after a trial that does not go their way.
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There are not many professions where you regularly face this type of pressure and heartbreak. But it forges determination. Fortitude. Grit.
Lawyers, like athletes, like anyone who is trying to master something difficult, are not here to play it safe and make excuses. You are here to give everything you have, to know how devastating it is to fail, how euphoric it is to learn and grow and will yourself to a better outcome next time. It's a process, and it's all connected.
And when you are there, in the weeds, grinding it out, it gives you the chance to say, "Hey. I've been here before. I know how to get through."