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08/11/2026

Two copies of the same book. Printed in two different countries. I didn't know that until I looked closely.

In the video, I'm opening the copy I ordered here in Austria. My son bought his when the book launched, through Amazon Germany. Mine came from an order I placed on this trip.

Here's the part I didn't mention while the camera was rolling. His copy was printed in Wrocław, Poland. Mine was printed in Torrazza Piemonte, Italy. Same book, same file, two different printing plants, depending on where the order landed.
That's how print on demand works now. There's no warehouse full of my books gathering dust. When someone orders one, the nearest plant prints it and ships it. His order went to Poland. Mine went to Italy.

I wrote this book at a desk at home. Watching it come out of a box in Austria, printed in Italy, still gets me.

If you've read The Hidden Side of Retirement, check the last page and tell me where your copy was printed. Mine says Italy.

The Difference Between a Retirement That Looks Good and One That Feels GoodFrom the outside, it checked every box.Travel...
08/10/2026

The Difference Between a Retirement That Looks Good and One That Feels Good

From the outside, it checked every box.

Travel. Freedom. Time with family. No alarm clock. No meetings. No one else's agenda is running your days.

That's the retirement that looks good. And plenty of people are living it, performing it, even, while something underneath quietly doesn't add up.

Because looking good and feeling good are not the same thing.

A retirement that looks good is built for other people. For the reaction at the dinner party. For the photos. For the answer to how's retirement treating you, that lands well and requires no follow-up.

A retirement that feels good is built for you. For the Tuesday morning that belongs entirely to you. For the work, and yes, it is work, of figuring out what actually gives your life meaning when the external validators are gone.

That's harder to photograph. It doesn't always make a great story at first. It requires a kind of honesty about what you actually want, separate from what you've been told you should want, that most people haven't had to practice in decades.

But it's the only retirement worth building.

The Hidden Side of Retirement is about the one that feels good. Not the one that looks good from the outside.

📖 Available on Amazon https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

The closest Amazon locker to my son's place in Austria, and me standing in front of it with a pickup code on my phone.My...
08/10/2026

The closest Amazon locker to my son's place in Austria, and me standing in front of it with a pickup code on my phone.

My son already had a copy of The Hidden Side of Retirement. He'd ordered it here, through Amazon Germany, back when it came out. I picked his copy up one afternoon and noticed the paper felt a little different from the copies I have at home. So, I did what an author on vacation apparently does. I ordered my own copy, here in Austria, just to have one from this trip.

This is me collecting it.

I'm visiting my son and his family for 21 days. Grandkids, the whole thing. And somewhere in the middle of it, a book I wrote at my desk at home showed up in a metal locker in a country I don't live in, printed and shipped because one person tapped a button.

I still don't take that for granted.

Have your kids ended up with a copy of something you made? Tell me about it.

This post is a week late, and I don't mind one bit. I've spent every day of it with my grandchildren, and there hasn't b...
08/07/2026

This post is a week late, and I don't mind one bit. I've spent every day of it with my grandchildren, and there hasn't been a spare minute until now.

Last Saturday the whole crew — my son, my daughter-in-law, my two grandchildren, and I — walked a mile and a half to Europapark here in Klagenfurt. We followed the canal most of the way. Bicyclists passed us the entire time, young and old, whole families of them. Bikes are how people get around here, and after a few days I understood why.

We found a picnic table and rested while the children ran off to play. The park was full of other families doing the same thing. After about an hour we kept walking and came on a flower garden that stopped me where I stood. I took more pictures than I can count. Ed is a florist, and I already know what he'll say about every single one.

Then the lake. Wörthersee. People eating at an outdoor café, others swimming, sailboats tied up at the marina, all that blue water with mountains behind it and a lookout tower on top. The grandchildren and I already have a plan to come back and swim before I fly home.

On the way back, we stopped for ice cream. I had my heart set on poppy seed, which they didn't have, so I got chocolate and caramel dipped in chocolate. No complaints.

A long way from home, walking miles a day, keeping up with a 10-year-old and a 6-year-old. I was worn out by the end of it. But it was one of the most memorable days I've had in a long while, and I'd do it all again tomorrow.

This is what I hoped retirement would make room for. Days like this one, an ocean away, just being Grandma. If you're retired, how are you spending that time with the people you love?

Why the First 90 Days of Retirement Are More Important Than Most People RealizeIn business, we talk about the first 90 d...
08/03/2026

Why the First 90 Days of Retirement Are More Important Than Most People Realize

In business, we talk about the first 90 days all the time.

New role. New organization. The window where patterns get established, culture gets read, and the foundation for everything that follows gets laid, whether you're intentional about it or not.

Retirement has a first 90 days too. And almost no one treats it that way.
Most people treat the first 90 days of retirement like an extended vacation. And that's understandable; the relief is real, the rest is needed, the decompression is necessary.

But something else is happening underneath the vacation feeling. Identity is shifting. Patterns are forming. The brain is quietly deciding what retirement feels like, and those early impressions have staying power.

I spent my career in healthcare quality and change management. I know what happens when transitions aren't designed. They don't just happen organically and well. They happen by default. And default transitions are almost always harder to course-correct than designed ones.

The first 90 days are when you set the tone. For your structure. Your relationships. Your sense of purpose. Your relationship with time itself.

You don't have to have it all figured out. But you do have to be paying attention.
The Hidden Side of Retirement gives you a framework for those first 90 days — before they pass without you.

📖 Available on Amazon: https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

I made it to Austria.Twenty-one hours of travel to get here. Layovers, no sleep, and a seven-hour time difference my bod...
07/30/2026

I made it to Austria.

Twenty-one hours of travel to get here. Layovers, no sleep, and a seven-hour time difference my body has not caught up to yet. But I am in Klagenfurt now, and this is the first thing I saw this morning from my son’s kitchen window.

Mountains in the backyard. I have looked at that view about a hundred times already.

I am here for three weeks visiting my son, my daughter-in-law, and my two grandchildren. The plan is simple. Be present, say yes, and take in as much of Klagenfurt as I can.

They do not have a car here, so we walk everywhere. This morning we walked to my granddaughter’s writing therapy session and back, then stopped at the grocery store for a loaf of bread. We also picked up a bottle of Almdudler. It is an Austrian soft drink, and it did not last long. Very good.

I am jetlagged and running on almost no sleep, but it is the good kind of tired. The kind that comes from finally being where you wanted to be.

I am going to bring you along for the whole trip. The walks, the food, the small everyday moments with these kids. This is what a better life over fifty looks like for me right now, and I would love to share it with you.

More soon, once I have slept.

The Friendships That Survive Retirement — and the Ones That Don'tNobody warns you about this one.You expect to miss the ...
07/27/2026

The Friendships That Survive Retirement — and the Ones That Don't

Nobody warns you about this one.

You expect to miss the work. You might even expect to miss the structure. But the friendships- those feel solid. Those feel like they belong to you, not the job.

Until they don't.

Here's the quiet truth about professional friendships: many of them are sustained by proximity and shared context. The daily hallway conversation. The lunch that happens because you're both already there. The text that makes sense because you're both navigating the same environment.

Remove the environment — and a surprising number of those connections quietly fade.

Not because anyone meant it to happen. Not because the care wasn't real. But because the infrastructure that held the friendship together was never really personal. It was professional. And it retired when you did.

What's left? The friendships that survive, that deepen, that become something more intentional, those are the ones worth everything.

I learned to tell the difference. Slowly. Honestly. And with more grief than I expected over the ones that didn't make it.

The Hidden Side of Retirement doesn't sugarcoat this. It names it, walks through it, and offers a framework for building the relational life you actually want on the other side.

📖 Available on Amazon https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

You Were Your Title for Decades. Now What?Director. VP. Manager. Partner. Executive.For decades, that word did a lot of ...
07/20/2026

You Were Your Title for Decades. Now What?

Director. VP. Manager. Partner. Executive.

For decades, that word did a lot of work.

It told people who you were the moment you walked into a room. It organized how others related to you. It gave you a place in every professional conversation, a clear answer to the question everyone asks within the first five minutes of meeting someone new.

What do you do?

And then one day, it's gone.

Not gradually. Not with a replacement waiting. Just gone.

I was Director of Quality Informatics for a national physician group. That title carried 45 years of work behind it. It wasn't just a job description. It was shorthand for everything I had built on: the expertise, the credibility, the version of myself that showed up every day and knew exactly what she was there to do.

Losing it wasn't like losing a business card. It was like losing a language I'd been fluent in for my entire adult life.

What nobody tells you is that the title was never really the identity. It was the container. And when the container disappears, the real work begins: figuring out what was actually inside it all along.

That work is harder than most people expect. And more worthwhile than most people imagine.

The Hidden Side of Retirement guides you through it.

📖 Available on Amazon https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

When the Calendar Goes Empty: How to Rebuild Structure That Feels Like FreedomThe first week feels like vacation.The sec...
07/13/2026

When the Calendar Goes Empty: How to Rebuild Structure That Feels Like Freedom

The first week feels like vacation.

The second week feels a little quieter.

By week six, the open calendar that once sounded like a dream starts to feel like something else entirely.

Structure isn't the enemy of freedom. For most high-achieving professionals, structure is actually what makes freedom possible. Without it, days blur. Energy drifts. The to-do list that once organized everything, that gave shape to mornings, purpose to afternoons, is simply gone.

And nobody warned you that you'd miss it.

Here's what I learned. You don't rebuild structure by filling every hour. You rebuild it by being intentional about a few anchors, the things that give your days shape without giving someone else ownership of your time.

A morning routine that belongs to you. A project that requires your brain. A commitment to something outside yourself. A rhythm that makes Tuesday feel different from Saturday.

Small things. But they matter enormously.

The calendar going empty isn't the problem. It's the opportunity. But only if you approach it with as much intention as you brought to the career that just ended.

The Hidden Side of Retirement walks through this in practical terms — how to rebuild a structure that feels like yours, not like a schedule you're serving.

Available on Amazon https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

The Retirement Conversation Most Couples Never Have (But Should)You've talked about the money. Probably more than once.Y...
07/06/2026

The Retirement Conversation Most Couples Never Have (But Should)

You've talked about the money. Probably more than once.

You've talked about where to live. Maybe travel. The grandkids. The things you'll finally have time for together.

But have you talked about this?

Who are you to each other when the careers are gone? When the structure that kept you both busy and out of each other's way for 40 years disappears, and suddenly you're together all day, every day, with no shared external framework?

When one of you is ready and the other isn't — what happens to the relationship?

When one of you loses identity in the transition, and the other thrives. How do you hold that difference without it becoming a wedge?

These are not small questions. And most couples never get to them, not before retirement, anyway. They show up in the first year, unannounced, in the middle of ordinary days.

I've seen it. I've lived adjacent to it. And I've watched it quietly strain relationships that survived everything else.

The Hidden Side of Retirement addresses the relational dimension of retirement transition, the conversations worth having before the calendar clears, not after.

Because retirement is rarely just one person's transition. It's two.

Available on Amazon https://a.co/d/08hFM0IJ

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