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The Hot Mess Collective is a mental resilience movement and digital infrastructure agency operating a hub-and-spoke model across beauty/hair, cannabis, real estate, and other service based businesses

05/29/2026

Mom. Wife. Business owner. Partner. Practice manager. I fu**in idea what I’m doing but having a blast 💖🧿

05/07/2026

This s**t ain’t for everyone. My vision became even clearer after my husband told me I need to make sure I avoid burnout. And that’s why I’ve been building this business. To avoid burnout. So why was I thinking I would be better off booking all these 1:1s where I was essentially the product? Kinda silly but at least I figured that out. Shout out to my babe for helping me realize that I need to be able to go with the flow in this season of life and not against it, and he’ll be taking care of me along the way like he always does. I love him so much!

Anyway guys, let’s go get em. If you need anything designed, an automation built or if you’re just curious to follow along in my process of becoming, see the link in my bio!
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04/28/2026

Lots going on. All very exciting. Thanks for rockin with me

04/16/2026

I was under five.
Somewhere in a room I wasn’t in, my stepdad drove to my father and asked him to sign papers.
For years I was told those papers were adoption papers. That my father had signed me away. That I was not worth fighting for.
That was the shape of the silence I grew up inside.
It wasn’t true.
But finding that out didn’t give me my childhood back. It just clarified the shape of the absence.
I wrote about it. The full piece — “The Papers He Signed” — is up now for paid subscribers on Substack.
This one was hard to write. It will probably be hard to read. But if you’ve ever been fed a story about your own life that turned out to be a shape, not a truth, it’s for you.
Link in bio.
— Sam
The mess is the message

Momisahotmess.substack.com

04/13/2026

You don’t need to become a systems person. You just need to hire one 🩵 link in bio or DM me “SYSTEM”

04/06/2026

The Hot Mess Collective is a mental resilience movement and digital infrastructure agency operating a hub-and-spoke model across beauty/hair, cannabis, and real estate.

We exist to close two gaps simultaneously: the mental fortitude gap in American families — and the systems gap in relationship-driven small businesses.

Founded on a decade of mortgage and finance experience. Built for people who are done being the best-kept secret in their industry.

One brand. Two missions. Zero tolerance for staying stuck.

I've built financial tracking systems for other people's businesses.And then I looked at my own bank account and went wa...
04/06/2026



I've built financial tracking systems for other people's businesses.

And then I looked at my own bank account and went wait, what.

Twice. Same season.

I used to have a running total in my head at all times. To the dollar. It wasn't a skill — it was armor. Built in an environment where not knowing the number had consequences.

Somewhere in the process of becoming a different version of myself, I put the armor down.

Which is growth. Except I did it without building anything to replace it.

This is what shadow work actually looks like. Not the crying selfie. The bank statement at 11pm going oh. OH. That's the thing.

Anyway. This seemed like as good a time as any to finally launch this.

If you're serious about becoming your best self, you have to spend time with your shadow.

I made something for that.

Dear Nobody: 30 Prompts to Guide You Through the Mess.

For anyone who loves people they're also still angry at. Who is trying to break patterns they didn't choose and build something they actually want.

These aren't soft prompts. They go where therapy hasn't yet.

Link in bio. $17. Download, print, write ugly.

https://stan.store/momisahotmess/p/get-dear-nobody-30-prompts-to-guide-you-through

I started writing my life story during night feeds at 3am. (Turns out sleep deprivation is great for honesty.)Mom Is A H...
03/18/2026

I started writing my life story during night feeds at 3am. (Turns out sleep deprivation is great for honesty.)
Mom Is A Hot Mess is officially live on Substack — and I'm not holding back.
Essays on motherhood, identity, and healing. Memoir excerpts as I write them, raw and real. Behind-the-scenes of building multiple businesses while postpartum and actively trying to break generational patterns I never asked to inherit.
(Yes all at the same time. No it's not pretty. Yes that's the point.)
Free subscribers get the essays. Paid subscribers ($7/month) get the deeper cuts — the memoir pieces first, the extended essays, the stuff that doesn't make it to Instagram.
The first three posts are already up. The first paid excerpt made me ugly cry writing it. Fair warning.
Link in bio. Come be a mess with me. 🖤

02/05/2026

Hello hello

02/04/2026

I’ve been so busy building that I haven’t been posting. If you’re new here, hi!

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