09/19/2024
Even superheroes bleed.
You feel alone.
Even when you're with others.
At work.
At home.
You're the ONE who makes it all happen.
And you LOVE your family.
Beyond words.
Beyond time.
You don't just love when it works for you.
You LOVE when you're dying inside.
All the self-help books and gurus say: Take care of yourself.
SET BOUNDARIES, but how do you do that when you're taking care of people who are ill physically or mentally?
And if you drop the ball, will there be serious consequences?
Nope.
So you're TRAPPED in life, but you're falling apart.
And you don't even see it.
or you see it and don't know how to stop it.
But stop it you must or RISK LOSING your physical and financial health.
Maybe you've got an unsupportive or unavailable partner.
Maybe you're an only child like me.
Maybe you've got chronic health issues out the ass.
But you MUST START TO SEE that you may be one health crisis away from losing it all like some of my clients and I did.
And choose the ROAD LESS TRAVELED.
When I was 21 years old and pronounced disabled for life, I had to find ALTERNATIVE ways to get my body to work so I could work.
Being disabled was never something I wanted to "be."
I hail from a long line of worker bees who put serving others ahead of their well-being.
That's how I know there's probably no one LOOKING OUT FOR YOU.
And that in and of itself is depressing.
See, you LIGHT DOESN'T GO OUT all at once.
So, notice the early warning signs, my love.
Because no one else will.
Looking out for you is your "job," too.
Because no one is coming to save you.
Unless you reach beyond the lies, lack, and limits of the mental health and health systems we've been SOLD on.
Because He can save you.
Redeem you.
No matter how lost.
but MAKE NO MISTAKE...
The time for a Road Less Traveled is now before you break like we did.
Getting help isn't weakness.
it's a success STRATEGY.
Turning away from broken systems is what my team and I have been helping people do for four decades.
We know what it's like to fall between the cracks in those systems.
If you or a beloved family member is up against impossible odds, email me.
Even high-performing super heroes have setbacks and need a hand getting their wings back in the sky.
Don't keep trying to do it in your power alone.
God built you to rise from the tiniest ashes into NEW living, loving, and earning VICTORIES.
So, give yourself PERMISSION to shed those old skins and rise again.
Because if I can overcome four disabilities to be here to serve again...
I know He baked the same kind of magic into your cells and soul, too.
Email me and write the words "new victories" in the subject line when you're ready to live, love, and earn like the champion He made you.
With all my love.
Dar out