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08/22/2026

It's time to Raise our Voices and Unmute the Silence behind closed doors of the realities many face related to Domestic Violence.

Sexual Coercive Control⬇️
Sexual coercive control is a continuous pattern of behavior where one person uses pressure, manipulation, guilt, or intimidation to force an unwilling partner into sexual activity. In a marriage, legal or cultural assumptions of sexual access are false; bodily autonomy remains absolute, and persistent pressure to gain compliance destroys true consent.

Sexual Trauma⬇️
Sexual trauma in domestic violence—including within marriage—is any unwanted sexual act, attempted sexual act, or sexual contact forced on a person by a current or former intimate partner through physical force, threats, intimidation, or coercion, violating their bodily autonomy and consent. Marriage does not imply automatic consent; forcing a spouse into sexual acts is recognized legally and psychologically as sexual assault.

Financial Abuse⬇️
Financial Abuse Is Domestic Abuse. Manipulating money and other economic resources is one of the most prominent forms of coercive control. Lack of access to economic resources is often why many abuse victims feel that they have no choice but to stay with an abuser. Economic barriers to leaving can result in staying with an abusive partner for longer and experiencing greater danger. Economic abuse doesn’t rely on physical proximity, so it can continue after separation. Those who finally leave an abusive partner are often left in debt or lack the financial security to rebuild their lives after leaving.

Stalking⬇️
Stalking is a serious issue affecting more than six million people each year. It can be a terrifying crime for those who experience it, and it is often one of many tactics that abusers use in order to maintain power and control over a current or former intimate partner. Being stalked by an intimate partner is a crime. When domestic violence victims experience both physical abuse and stalking behaviors, the risk for homicide is increased. 76% of all domestic violence homicide victims had also been stalked in the year before their murder. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence including stalking, call or text our 24-hour hotline at (888) 774-2900. Advocates are here to help and support you.

Psychological abuse⬇️

Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, or injury. Sharing unconsented intimate videos or images of a partner is considered a severe form of psychological, emotional, and sexual abuse. It is widely classified by experts and advocates as image-based abuse or non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII), and it is frequently used as a tool for coercive control, intimidation, and blackmail.

AGAINST ALL ODDZ Still I RISE Grassroots Movement and Ministry is committed to advocating for legislative reform and meaningful changes within the judicial system that strengthen protections, resources, and support for victims, survivors, and their families.

We are seeking passionate, compassionate, and committed individuals who are trained—or have a desire to be trained—to partner with us as we RAISE OUR VOICES, UNMUTE THE SILENCE, and RISE UP AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
Domestic violence thrives in silence, and we believe it is time to speak louder, advocate stronger, educate our communities, and work collectively toward lasting change.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

f you are interested in becoming a Community Partner and joining us in this movement of advocacy, education, awareness, empowerment, and change, we invite you to visit our website and connect with us. Your voice matters. Your advocacy matters. Together, we can help break the cycle.

💜 AGAINST ALL ODDZ Still I RISE
Transforming Lives Through Transparency, Education, Advocacy & Agape Love.
🌐 againstalloddzministry.org⁠�

08/17/2026

ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL BORN DAY MEMORY!
🎶💜✨

My 60th Born Day celebration just kept giving me beautiful moments and memories! One of those special moments was having the opportunity to see one of my favorite female music legends, Ann Nesby, last Thursday at Life Center Church in Charlotte. 🙌🏽🎶

This moment took me back YEARS! There was a season when my sons were young, and as I prepared them for school each morning and got myself ready for work, Ann Nesby and Sounds of Blackness were part of the soundtrack of our mornings. 🎵

Those songs carried messages of faith, strength, perseverance, hope, and overcoming—and little did I know then just how much I would need those very messages throughout my own life's journey.

Now, at 60 years young, to stand beside a woman whose voice was woven into so many memories from my younger years was truly a full-circle moment.💚💜💚

Sometimes God allows us to revisit the soundtrack of our past just to remind us of how far He has brought us.

From preparing my babies for school and heading off to work...
to becoming a mother, grandmother, survivor, Elder, advocate, and woman who has overcome more than a few ODDZ...

I'M STILL HERE. I'M STILL SMILING. I'M STILL RISING. 🙏🏽👑

Thank you, Ann Nesby, for sharing your incredible gift with generations of us. What a beautiful addition to my 60th Born Day season! 🎂🎶💜

Some songs become memories.
Some voices become part of your journey.
And some moments remind you that you've lived long enough to see yesterday meet today.

AGAINST ALL ODDZ... Still I RISE! 💜👑

08/17/2026

One of the greatest highlights of my 60th Born Day Celebration had nothing to do with gifts, dinner, decorations, or even celebrating another year of life. It was about KINGDOM, PURPOSE, FRIENDSHIP, and OBEDIENCE TO GOD.🌊🤍🙏

On August 2, 2026, my BFF of over 35 years came to visit me and asked me a question I will never forget:

“Will you baptize me?”

With tears rolling down my face, I said, “YES!”

We embraced and cried tears of JOY as we reflected on where God has brought us from and where we are today. More than 35 years of friendship, life experiences, lessons, victories, disappointments, growth, and transformation—and here we were talking about BAPTISM!

I told her, “BFF, we have to find a lake and make this happen.”

Without hesitation my beautiful Beloved Queen Sistah Mesa Smith responded,
“No, we don't! We're going to be at Myrtle Beach the weekend of August 14th. What better place than the OCEAN?” 🌊🙏

And so it was...

Early Sunday morning, August 16, 2026, after an amazing weekend celebrating my 60 years of LIFE, we awakened early enough to witness the twilight transition into a beautiful sunrise over the ocean. After cleaning up from the Born Day dinner celebration, we made our way down to the water.

✅️There was no crowd🤼🤼‍♀️🧍🚶
✅️No microphone🎤
✅️No church building⛪️
✅️No cameras rolling🎥

We didn't have anyone available to capture the actual baptism on video—but I've come to realize that everything sacred doesn't have to be captured for social media. GOD CAPTURED IT ALL. 🙌🏽

The ocean became our baptismal pool, the sunrise became our backdrop, and Heaven was our witness.

To stand in the waters with a woman who has been my BFF for more than 35 years and participate in such a sacred declaration of her faith was one of the greatest gifts I could have received for my 60th Born Day.

Baptism represents spiritual transformation and our identification with the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. The water symbolizes cleansing, purification, and the beginning of a renewed walk with God.

As Romans 6:4 reminds us:

“We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that... we too may live a new life.”

I am humbled because at 60 years young, after everything God has brought me through, preserved me through, healed me through, and delivered me from, I am STILL here—and more importantly, I AM STILL ABOUT MY FATHER'S BUSINESS.

My desire remains to lift HIM up, serve HIM, and allow my life to be used to draw others closer to HIM.

Jesus said in John 12:32, “And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto me.”

BFF, I am honored that you trusted me to share this sacred moment with you. We have shared more than three decades of memories, but THIS ONE will forever be set apart.

From where we were more than 35 years ago...
TO WHERE GOD HAS BROUGHT US TODAY.

Look at GOD! 🙌🏽😭🌊🤍
What a way to close out my 60th Born Day Celebration Weekend.

No video was necessary.
Heaven has the footage🙏🏽
TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY🙏💚🔥

08/08/2026

Pressure doesn't always arrive to defeat us oftentimes pressure serves a purpose.

Pressure can introduce your inability to let Go of control and place your trust in God. Pressure can also introduce you to the version of yourself that comfort continues to postpone. Pressure can strengthen your faith and endurance.

08/03/2026

💕 I'm honored and excited to invite you to join me for a special evening of faith, healing, and encouragement!

I have the privilege of serving as the Guest Speaker for the Get Up Girl Empowerment Network Inc. Conversations Community on Thursday, August 27, 2026, at 7:00 PM (EST).

Together, we will explore the powerful topic:

💖 Self-Love: Seeing Yourself the Way God Sees You
📖 "I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made..." — Psalm 139:14

Far too many women struggle with comparison, rejection, guilt, shame, and low self-worth. God never intended for us to view ourselves through the lens of our pain or past experiences. He sees us as chosen, loved, valuable, and created with divine purpose.

I invite you to come expecting a life-changing conversation that will encourage you to embrace your God-given identity, discover your worth, and walk confidently in the purpose He has ordained for your life.

Please invite your mothers, daughters, sisters, friends, and every woman who needs this message. Share this flyer, mark your calendars, and join us live on August 27 at 7:00 PM.

I can't wait to fellowship with you!

With love,
Elder Valerie Bradshaw (Hadassah Reigns)
Founder & Executive Strategist
AGAINST ALL ODDZ Still I RISE Grassroots Movement & Ministry
🌐 againstalloddzministry.org

Yeeeeessss and AMEN🙏💜🙏
08/01/2026

Yeeeeessss and AMEN🙏💜🙏

08/01/2026

August is National Wellness Month

Celebrate National Wellness Month during the entire month of August. It's time to prioritize your self-care, reduce stress, and create healthier habits to feel like your best self!

National Wellness Month was born out of the idea that if we are going to do big things in the world. In between building our careers, raising a family, furthering our education, creating new ideas, and nurturing our bodies, we need to take care of ourselves, too.

07/29/2026

Exactly 10 years ago today, I was fighting for my life.

I entered the hospital for a scheduled surgical procedure after being diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder in 2015. During that procedure, I slipped into a coma.

Medical professionals, including my endocrinologist at the time, Dr. Nambi, told me that my heart stopped.

Today, I am reminded of God's amazing grace, His unfailing mercy, His unconditional love, and His divine favor upon my life. My heart is humbled by His faithfulness and by the undeniable truth that He chose to spare me for purpose.

I was born to overcome life's adversities. I was created to reign.

As I reflect on this journey, I can't help but think about the symbolism of where I once lived—a street named Myrtle School Road. Looking back now, I believe God was leaving reminders along the way. The myrtle tree is often associated with restoration, peace, hope, and God's covenant promises. Even then, He was planting signs of the life He had already ordained for me.

Ten years later, I stand as living proof that purpose still prevails AGAINST ALL ODDZ.

To God be all the glory🙏💜🙏


PurposeStillPrevails HeKeptMe Overcomer GodsGrace ToGodBeTheGlory HealingJourney FaithJourney TransformingLivesThroughTransparency GodsFavor KingdomPurpose CalledandChosen Forsuchatimeasthis Myrtletree Hadassahreigns

07/24/2026

AGAINST ALL ODDZ Still I RISE Grassroots Movement and Ministry⬇️

Are you ready to invest in the next level of your purpose?

Do you know and understand that your greatest asset and greatest return on investment (ROI) is "YOU"?

We invite you to envision yourself taking the next step in pursuing your God-given calling.
The poll below will remain open for the next three weeks. If you're interested, please select the certification that aligns most with your purpose.

⬇️ Please cast your vote below in the comments:
✅️ Option 1: ✝️Chaplaincy Course Certification
✅️ Option 2: 🌱 Certified Life Coach
✅️ Option 3: 📖 Certified Christian Counselor

"Invest in yourself today, so you can impact lives tomorrow."

07/24/2026

Why does self-care matter?
Self-Care matters because it:

protects and maintains your physical and mental health and well-being
reduces stress & builds resilience
helps you cope with life’s challenges
helps keep your body and mind functioning well.
Every bit of self-care you do contributes to a healthier you.

Did you know there are two parts to self-care?
Self-care actions and self-care interventions.

Self-care actions

Self-care actions include healthy practices, habits and lifestyle choices, such as eating a healthy diet, being physically active, refraining from to***co, avoiding alcohol consumption, getting enough sleep and connecting with others.

Self-care interventions

Self-care interventions can include diagnostics to screen for conditions such as HIV, or a pregnancy self-test; devices for self-monitoring conditions such as diabetes and hypertension, and drugs such as over-the-counter emergency contraception or paracetamol.

Find out if there are any Self-Care Month activities going on where you live and can take part in, or organize your own activities and invite others to join you.

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