04/19/2026
Throwback to an amazing experience in my life, which will one day be recognized by my first born son as an amazing one in his. (Especially if he joins the fire service one day)
We have an amazing organization in Texas, the Texas Fire Chiefs Association. I was blessed to be sent by my department to the Battalion Chief’s Academy. Camden wasn’t in school at the time, so I asked if he wanted to stay home with his Mom, or travel with me to a work conference. I warned him it might be boring and he might be stuck in a hotel room for several hours until class let out and we could go have fun, and have dinner together each night. It was an easy ‘yes’ for him.
Well, the 1:1 dinners were fun. The conversation on the drive, at dinner, and at night after a movie and/or TV show were definitely good times, and good connection. I absolutely enjoyed exploring the Branch Davidian compound/Mount Carmel Center with him in Waco (he is a history/politics buff) where to this day a few of the original Branch Davidians, run off by Koresh when he took over to form a cult that caused the death of some of their family and friends, give tours and tell their testimony of what occurred from their perspective. (Side note, today in 1993 the Waco Siege ended)
But, it wasn’t just about those good times together that made it special. TFCA was so gracious and kind (and inspired by seeing a 16 year old willing to attend a Battalion Chief’s Academy) enough to offer for my son to attend any class he wanted, that I approved of him being a part of. They also offered him the chance to eat meals with us free of charge (I offered to pay or buy him lunch) so that he could get the full experience. I was absolutely thrilled to learn some great material that no doubt has already made me a better leader, but it was amazing to watch my son shake hands and have adult discussions with some very powerful leaders in the fire industry, and have the chance to meet some folks leading the education and training of the next generation of fire service leaders. Should he join, they were able to impart some wisdom the the NEXT, next generation of the fire service within my son.
What a week that was.