Kenyan men in the US -Kemitus

04/15/2026

Oh, political discipline, you say? I’ve mastered it like a ninja in flip-flops. I now keep my views to myself so tightly that my own shadow doesn’t know my voting preferences. And let me tell you—life has been sweet. Sweeter than mangoes in December. Until the other day when I made the mistake of opening my mouth just once—some mild opinion about roadside chai taxes—and my dear wives (yes, plural, don’t do the math, just enjoy the chaos) gave me a rare applause. Rare, k**a wali wa daku. I froze! Applause from them usually means they’re either mocking me or about to hand me a bill for their shopping sprees.

So there I stood, sweating, waiting for the catch. And then it hit me: I’ve been so apolitical, so gloriously neutral, that I’ve achieved the ultimate dream—no one can force me to resign (from what? My couch?), and no one can take me off the group chat or the wall (I’m not even on a wall, unless you count the “Wanted: Peace and Quiet” poster my wives made).

So please, pals, don’t stone me. I’m just a simple man who traded opinions for peace and applause for panic. Being apolitical isn’t cowardice—it’s survival tactics in a house where the opposition party has better snacks and sharper elbows. 😅

01/25/2025

Today I want to focus on the power of positive thinking. As we navigate the complexities of life, it's essential to remember that our energy and focus are precious resources. Sometimes, we must rise above the noise of negativity and criticism that surrounds us.

It's easy to get caught up in the vortex of other people's opinions and biases. But before we start judging others, let's take a moment to reflect on our own lives. Let's gaze into the mirror and ask ourselves:

- Am I living my best life?
- Am I spreading love, kindness, and compassion?
- Am I being the change I wish to see in the world?

If we can honestly say that we're doing our best, then we can hold our heads high and continue to shine our light. But if we're not, then let's focus on making positive changes within ourselves.

Remember, we can't control how others behave, but we can control how we respond to them. Let's choose to rise above the noise, to spread love and kindness, and to be the beacons of hope and positivity that the world needs.

Dr. Seneta Nyabera Kebaso is a Clinical Research scientist and a social life coach.

01/20/2025

The Paradox of Wealth and Relationships: Exploring the Divorce Trend Among the Ultra-Rich

Recent high-profile divorces among the world's wealthiest individuals, including Bill Gates of Microsoft, Jeff Bezos of Amazon, Tiger Woods-the golf legend, Pep Guardiola-the most successful footbal coach and current coach of Manchester City and many others including the Current US president elect, have sparked intriguing questions about the correlation between wealth and relationship stability. As we aspire to achieve financial success, it's essential to examine the potential implications of wealth on our personal relationships.

While wealth can provide unparalleled opportunities and freedom, it can also create unique challenges that may contribute to relationship dissatisfaction and divorce. Some possible factors to consider include:

1. The corrupting influence of power and wealth: Unchecked wealth and power can lead to a sense of invincibility, potentially fostering infidelity and a lack of accountability.

2. Changing values and priorities: As individuals accumulate wealth, their values and priorities may shift, potentially leading to a divergence in goals and aspirations within the relationship.

3. Increased stress and pressure: Managing vast wealth and business empires can be incredibly stressful, potentially straining relationships and leading to emotional disconnection.

4. The blurring of personal and professional boundaries: The demands of wealth management and business obligations can lead to an indistinct line between personal and professional life, potentially causing tension and conflict within the relationship.

However, it's essential to note that wealth is not the sole determinant of relationship success or failure. Many wealthy individuals maintain healthy, fulfilling relationships, while others may struggle despite modest means.

As we navigate our own paths to financial success, it's crucial to prioritize our personal relationships and cultivate a strong foundation of trust, communication, and mutual respect. By doing so, we can mitigate the potential risks associated with wealth and build resilient, loving relationships that thrive in the face of adversity.

Ultimately, the correlation between wealth and divorce serves as a reminder that true wealth lies not in our bank accounts, but in the richness of our relationships and the love we share with others.

Dr. Seneta Nyabera Kebaso Is a Clinical Reseach Scientist and a social coach.

01/13/2025

It is with profound respect and gratitude that we invite friends and supporters of the people's president in and around Delaware to gather in large numbers on the dates denoted in the flyers below. We will be paying our last respects to our beloved brother, and your presence would be a heartfelt tribute to his legacy.

Furthermore, we humbly request your support in our efforts to repatriate our brother to his final resting place. Your assistance in this endeavor would be a poignant demonstration of our collective commitment to honoring his memory.

We are counting on your presence and support to make this farewell a celebration of our brother's life and legacy. Please find the details below, and let us come together to bid him a dignified farewell.

12/25/2024

Tracy Nyariki, a vibrant life brutally cut short. The 31-year-old from Bear, Delaware, was found murdered and dismembered in Aberdeen, Maryland, leaving her loved ones and community shattered.

The nightmare began on December 20, 2024, when Tracy's employer reported her absence from work, sparking a welfare check by the police. Her apartment revealed ominous signs, prompting a statewide alert and her official listing as a missing person.¹

As investigators dug deeper, 32-year-old Robert Matara emerged as a person of interest. The trail led them to Aberdeen, Maryland, where local police assisted in tracking Matara and his vehicle. The horrific discovery of Tracy's dismembered remains inside his car would change everything.

Matara's arrest and impending extradition to Delaware, where he'll face first-degree murder charges, offer little solace to Tracy's grieving family. The pain of losing a loved one is unbearable, and the circumstances of her death are nothing short of devastating.

As we mourn Tracy's tragic loss, we're reminded of the importance of community vigilance and support. If you have any information about this heinous crime, please contact Detective Adam Holubinka at (302) 395-8254 or email him at [email protected].

Rest in peace, Tracy Nyariki. May your memory be a blessing to your loved ones, and may justice be served.

12/03/2024

Men, trust no woman as your friend. Not even your sister!!! They're all out to eat from you and when you're depleted they'll all be gone! Period.

09/04/2024

We are set for the gala next month. The following giants are confirmed to attend. Don't forget to purchase your tickets and send us your portrait for a personalized flyer. Https://kebasofoundation.org

08/19/2024

The Kebaso foundation is inviting you to join them this year for the 2nd Annual gala, that will take place in the first State of DELAWARE on the October 5th 2024 starting -12am! Tickets are out for a sale, kindly grab one and let’s go dance as we support educating smart but economically challenged students in 254!! For more information contact Seneta Nyabera Kebaso Lenah Kebaso, the organizing committee and myself!! Huu mwaka ni partee after partee 🫶🙌👌 and you all know it with Deejay Teackles on the deck we are covered & it’s gonna be lit 🔥 haya Karibuni sana! https://donorbox.org/events/643946

The Kebaso foundation is inviting you to join them this year for the 2nd Annual gala, that will take place in the first State of DELAWARE on the October 5th 2024 starting -12am! Tickets are out for a sale, kindly grab one and let’s go dance as we support educating smart but economically challenged students in 254!! For more information contact Seneta Nyabera Kebaso Lenah Kebaso, the organizing committee and myself!! Huu mwaka ni partee after partee ��� and you all know it with Deejay Teackles on the deck we are covered & it’s gonna be lit � haya Karibuni sana! https://donorbox.org/events/643946

07/11/2024

With great enthusiasm, I present my resume for consideration for the position of CS for Health in Kenya, boasting extensive credentials and experience in public health, committed to delivering valuable contributions from day one.

06/11/2024

Yesterday Dr. Lenah and Dr. Nyabera Kebaso had the opportunity to present at the Christian Transformation Center in Townsend, Delaware. The topic was on the opportunities for scholarships and grants for students in various levels in the US. The information was overwhelmingly received. Well and We thank God for planting the seed in the leadership of the church to seek opportunities for our youth and our people.