09/18/2026
đ **Confidence or Bragging?**
Why the difference mattersâŠ
***âIf you canât advertise yourself, what hope do you have of advertising anything else?â***
***â David Ogilvy***
Yes, confidence sells.
But when you cross the line into bragging, trust disappears fast quickly.
Key Takeaways:
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Confidence builds trust.
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Bragging destroys it.
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Your audience can feel the difference.
đ **Lead With Humility, Not Hype**
***âIf you done it, it ainât bragging.â***
***â Walt Whitman***
Itâs not just what youâve doneâŠitâs how you talk about it.
Key Takeaways:
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Success requires support, timingâŠand a little luck.
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Gratitude keeps confidence grounded.
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Humility makes your message more relatable.
đ **Criticism Isnât an AttackâItâs a Mirror**
Even helpful stories can land wrong.
Iâve been there.
Key Takeaways:
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Feedback is a gift, not a threat.
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Count the âIâsâ vs. âYouâsâ in your copy. Make it about them, not you.
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Stay in the sweet spot: Confidence without arrogance.
đ **Arrogance Kills More Than VibesâIt Kills Copy**
One eager writer told me he would be the âbest copywriter my company has ever seen.â
*NOTE: My company (Boardroom Inc.) had a history of working with the most legendary copywriters of all time including [Gene Schwartz](http://www.breakthroughadvertising.com), Gary Bencivenga, Jim Rutz, Clayton Makepeace and dozens more.*
Back to the eager writerâŠI checked his work and his claim of being the best copywriter my company has ever seen was incorrect (understatement). đ
Key Takeaways:
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Arrogance clouds judgmentâand weakens persuasion.
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Humility isnât weaknessâitâs clarity.
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As John Caples said:
***âThe most frequent reason for unsuccessful advertising is advertisers who are so full of their own accomplishments (the worldâs best seed!) that they forget to tell us why we should buy (the worldâs best lawn!).â***
Humility is more than a virtue. Itâs a strategic advantage. đ„đ