06/15/2026
Focusing solely on a post-mortem legacy can feel hollow.š”
Your "living legacy"āhow you're remembered and celebrated todayāmatters more.
It's about keeping on keeping on until your story's done.
In 2019, I wrote āThe View From Above Groundā about life and legacy.
A few months later, I had my own near-death experience when I suffered a stroke.
I'm grateful to be alive.
And it inspired a follow up post, āThe view from below ground.ā
And since then, I've been thinking about the difference between our living legacy and what we leave behind after death.
Losing one of my mentors Gordon Grossman a year after and hearing about my Filipino assistant Macyās grandfather passing shortly after that has kept mortality on my mind.
Itās not morbid⦠but something worth contemplating without becoming depressedā¦because we all have a 100% certainty of dying.
And itās about purpose.
These losses reminded me of the Mexican tradition of *DĆa de Mu***os* (āThe Day of the Deadā) and the movie *Coco,* which beautifully explores family, remembrance, and leaving a mark on the worldā¦and itās a celebration of those weāve lost, not a day mourning.
It stresses that there never a āfinal deathā until someone is no longer remembered.
When my book *Overdeliver* launched in April of 2019 followed by my stroke the very next day, the lessons from *Coco* regarding family and legacy were only emphasized..
I didnāt have any massive epiphanies after my strokeābut the lessons I took from the movie brought me clarity.
One message stood out:
The love and support of family trumps everything else.
I dedicated *Overdeliver* to my wife and kids with the words:
*āNo one can do anything in life without a loving and supportive family.ā*
I reflect on all those who helped me along the way through some of the toughest āmarketing wars.ā
It wasnāt a solo journey⦠and my story wouldnāt be complete without honoring the greats in direct marketing on whose shoulders I stand.
In that hospital bed, knowing Iād make it, I thought about the legacy Iām actively creatingānot just what Iād leave behind but what Iām building now.
The *Overdeliver* resource page [(www.OverdeliverBook.com)](http://www.OverdeliverBook.com) is a meaningful part of that legacy, a tribute to mentors who profoundly shaped me.
Now gone but honored in the bonuses (and none of these folks will experience a āfinal deathā today):
Dick Benson
Fred Catona
Wilt Chamberlain
Winston Churchill
Marty Edelston
Gordon Grossman
Gary Halbert
Claude Hopkins
Mel Martin
David Ogilvy
Joe Sugarman
Jim Rutz
Gene Schwartz
Jerry Weintraub
Lester Wunderman
ā¦and Macyās Papa (who is represented by Macy with this post)
And many mentors still creating their living legacy:
Jay Abraham
Gary Bencivenga
Eric Betuel
Bob Bly
Bill Bonner
Todd Brown
Bob Burg
David Deutsch
Mark Ford
Denny Hatch
Dean Jackson
Arthur Johnson
Dan Kennedy
Harlan Kilstein
Nicholas Kusmich
Parris Lampropoulos
Perry Marshall
Ken McCarthy
Eben Pagan
Greg Renker
Ed Sheeran
Yanik Silver
āCocoā teaches us that no one is truly gone as long as theyāre rememberedāitās a beautiful thought and not a sad one.
And for those of us still āabove ground,ā it reminds us to create, give, and remember with intention every day.
Letās celebrate the lives that shaped us.
I encourage you to honor your mentors in your own way every day.
Theyāll feel it, wherever they are.
And together, weāll carry their legacy forward.š±