11/09/2026
Some memories are funny.
Others take longer to write.
When violence entered our home, there were people who quietly stepped in.
Aunty Sally.
Rose.
Daphne.
Women who patched my mother up physically and, without knowing it, helped hold a frightened family together emotionally as well.
As a child, I thought they were among the smartest and kindest people in the world.
Looking back, I don't think I was wrong.
Growing-up Coloured, Confused & Divorced contains the laughter.
But it doesn't avoid the scars.
It is the story of a family, a childhood and the extraordinary ordinary people who helped us survive both.
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A candid South African memoir of growing up Coloured in Apartheid Cape Town, told through family, identity, pain, divorce and humour.