10/03/2023
Independence is a very cardinal thing in the life of any human being. Lately, most women feel a man owes them anything they need in this life from simple cosmetics to most complicated things related to family obligations like school sponsorship and many more. My sister if it is not a college or government bursary which has put you into school, think twice about it. In economics there is a statement that, "there is no free lunch", bcoz whatever you think is free today, will have consequences tomorrow and you will fail to bear them. They say, "he that pays the piper calls for the tune", whatever he pays for you ain't free, you will pay for it in one way or the other. Be independent minded and stop thinking your body is a financial asset, you are better than that African child. Coming to men, it is equally not manly to start taking up responsibilities which are not yours, it is that of the lady's family to educate her, and if you want to marry her, make a choice to marry somebody who is not educated and educate them in your free time. You should not be arm twisted into accepting obligations which are not yours bcoz you are scared a woman will leave you, remember if she was meant to be yours, she will stay no matter what. If she is not satisfied with your reality of words when you say no to a commitment she is trying to impose on you, leave her or give her the liberty to leave you, after all there are many out there, you will find somebody and she will find somebody. Killing each other like animals, as if you are losing the whole world. We were designed to think more than that, not our current deteriorating state of minds where we want to die over what we think is love, when in actual sense is just an obligation.
Lesson: Ladies, let your families educate you if you want freedom from any man. Men, it is not your obligation to begin sponsoring somebody's child if you are not married or committed to each other in any way